Tarot reading on Changes to make & Actions to take. Please Help

[johnstash]

Hi, I did a reading (Waite Rider) asking what changes must I make, what must I do so that my relationship with my ex. will work, a reconciliation:

(1) Past - 3 of Swords
(2) Energies & Influences - Magician
(3) Choices & Actions - Strength
(4) Outcome - 7 of Pentacles

I had earlier did a reading for us, I'm the Ace of Swords while she is the Queen of Swords, 4 of Pentacles as hidden influences and the Outcome is 9 of Pentacles.

What is the tarot telling me that I must do? Give her space, wait & see, let nature take its course, be patient, (continue to communicate with her but not too frequent?) , show her concern but don't rush, take it easy attitude? Please advice. Greatly appreciate.