Graves, cremation, funerals etc

[Westleigh]

I think of "moving beyond the veil" simply as being a metaphor for moving from physical to spirit, though others may interpret it differently.

However, it is true that spirits who have recently passed are more present in an Earthly sense and more able to enter our perception - this is because, as spirits integrate more with the spirit world, this raises their vibration, and the higher the vibration the more difficult it is to communicate with us in the physical (lower vibrations). This is why most paranormal activity we see indicates the presence of ghosts, the spirits who have remained here on Earth instead of crossing over. I am sure your wife is trying no less hard to connect with you, but it may be more difficult for her to do so.

This is a good sign for her because it means she is moving into joy and higher spiritual understanding, but it is understandable that it is difficult for you.