Sense the death of somones Dad

[froebellian]

What do you do when you sense someone close to you is going to lose a parent?

I feel I should not say anything, but wait and support afterwards..

I have a yearning to tell him spend some time with Dad, but don't feel thats right and he may question why I say that.

Anyone been in a similar predicament/position?

Thanks

Froe

I feel your pain on this, however I have always been told not to say when something like this is going to happen as you are interferring with what is a natural thing to happen. You may cause unecessary fear.

Personally I wouldn't say anything, just be there for support.

Originally Posted by froebellian

What do you do when you sense someone close to you is going to lose a parent?

I feel I should not say anything, but wait and support afterwards..

I have a yearning to tell him spend some time with Dad, but don't feel thats right and he may question why I say that.

Anyone been in a similar predicament/position?

Thanks

Froe

or just tell the person that you want to encourage them to spend more time with our loved ones.. for example their father.. then the person maynot even realize what is being said but, may act on it....

All The Glory Belongs To God Forever!

[Native spirit]

Hi Froebellion,

This may be a question only you can answer, it depends on how well you know this person, would they be open to take in what you tell them or would they dismiss it,
i have been in a similar situation and it depends on how well you know the person, for myself it was a friend . who knew what i did so it came as no surprise. but nobody knows how they will react.

Namaste

Originally Posted by froebellian

What do you do when you sense someone close to you is going to lose a parent?

I feel I should not say anything, but wait and support afterwards..

I have a yearning to tell him spend some time with Dad, but don't feel thats right and he may question why I say that.

Anyone been in a similar predicament/position?

Thanks

Froe

i am in the exact same boat, and i am not saying a word.

[doryn10]

I would have loved to know-whr i in your friend's place..

[froebellian]

Originally Posted by Gracey

i am in the exact same boat, and i am not saying a word.

Thanks.. thats what I have been advised to do..

I agree with Toolite.
I'd make a general comment here & there on how important family is and possibly touch on regrets I've personally had by not doing so.

I always tell people I am close to that I can sense when someone is going to die, and I ask them in advance: "If I sense that someone close to you is about to die, do you want me to tell you?"
This allows them to make the choice ahead of time whether or not they would want to know...however, most of the people I have asked this question to all respond that they would NOT want to know......

There is absolutely no rule ...... only one's heart know what's appropriate.
I'd hate to regret not doing something , if I felt an urging.