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Originally Posted by Lorelyen
I didn't say you were. I wondered if you'd considered and I listed a few possibilities, really to suggest I wasn't just making a glib remark. You're right. Trust has to be earned. That can take time.
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Oh I see, sorry, that's okay then, yes you are right, you were only listing possibilities. No I'm not gullible, lol, far from it. I think it's a case of negative, ie toxic, people being everywhere - well, just as there are good people everywhere. But yes, everyone I know has also come across a number of toxic people and it's difficult to trust after that. I've heard some horrendous stories from people what they have experienced with exes, or even with former friends.
True what you say, sometimes it can be just getting on well to start with. One realizes after a while that the other person is one's soulmate. A soulmate can indeed be of either gender, it can be a friend or a partner. It's a connecting of souls, knowing that one is on one wavelength.