How to fix a numbed heart Chakra? When my TF sends love, I don't feel it.

[FairyCrystal]

Originally Posted by Eternal Flame

My heart chakra shuts down around Narcissists.

Narcissists often mirror a person and thus 'pretend' to be a Twin Flame.

Yep, they can easily be confused with one in the beginning stages...

[FairyCrystal]

I posted the other day about "reclaiming your heart" in Judy Hall's Crystal Prescriptions. I think Nr 5, it's the one with Feng Shui in it (it mentions that on the cover)
I did that a couple times, and it has helped me tremendously! After my breakup with my TF I kept finding it difficult to open my heart, nothing seemed to work. That visualisation/meditation did it. I will have to do it a few more times to make it stick. But it helps you check and see who's holding a piece of your heart, which you often have given away yourself, causing problems.
You can then reclaim it, heal it etc. All in there.

[eatember]

That sounds rough. I know how feeling cut off can feel.

Again, you're a different person who's maybe on a different track in life then I am, but for me I would think this would be a situation where I had to figure something out without guidance. It would be very difficult but I would learn how to be more self-sufficient about these kinds of problems in the future. It would let me learn about what's going on to cause such a thing and give me practice so I could eventually deal with it more intuitively and with ease. It would mean that I could keep my connection strong in the face of problems from then on.

I'm the kind of person who has an urge to be self-sufficient with these things though. I'm like the spiritual equivalent of a little kid who doesn't want their parents help putting their shoes on even though they don't really know how, ha. :P People are different though! Some people get a lot of invaluable insight from outside guidance and that kind of thing is so much better for them and their development then it would be for me. So maybe you're supposed to be connected and having a different problem?

[Rhetoricc]

I try to solve things while also asking for similar experiences. Then I can solve it and share what worked. Solving me quickly while possibly helping others in the future. When everything was at it's best, the heart was sensitive to feelings, sensitive to intuition, my vibration was high. So I was naturally really happy as a result. Things that I wanted felt like they were already mine. Had extremely clear communication between me and tf. Whatever the cause, whatever it is, it affects all of those things at once. Aligning? Straying away from the higher self/soul? Actually makes sense. I was "made" to feel certain things intuitively. Inner knowing. It came from whatever higher self to me. All of those things could be due to no longer being connected to this higher self or not being aligned then?