Your part in the whole

[naturesflow]

Originally Posted by peacelovejoy

I believe in speaking your truth and sharing your feelings, but when doing so, also considering how it might impact others and their feelings. I also value respect and equality, and yelling and talking down to people do not reflect either of those values - but the opposite. Those actions aren't kind, compassionate, helpful or productive... to me, it sounds like you're trying to rationalize those behaviours as being OK and beneficial to them, when really, it reflects weakness and a loss of control on your part. I think that trying to always talk to others with respect - without condescension and contempt - in a calm and composed voice is much more positive, helpful and effective when communicating and solving issues.

I hope you don't mind I used your words in another thread with you name as the writer. It seemed to relate there and I felt your sharing was beautifully acknowledging the whole in ways we can often overlook.