I'm gonna try something...

In the past I've had really deep confidence issues with girls/women. I still do, but to a much lesser extent than I used to. I know I'm gonna be at a party tomorrow night and there should be plenty of opportunities to talk to some women. I think I'm gonna talk to all of them. Why not right? Plant every seed you can and maybe something interesting will happen. I've met a couple girls that I've kinda hit it off with in recent months, but they were just girls I met once and couldn't/didn't really see again. Tomorrow I'm hoping to have a little success. I'm hoping my luck can change cause I think I deserve it and I think I'm ready for it to. Maybe tomorrow's meaningless but I'm trying to have a new attitude about the whole thing. Send me good thoughts/vibes if that's your thing!

Go for it Adrift! Talk to them all, see if you have anything in common or there is a spark between you. If so then get their number.

Good luck. I wish you every success.

[RedEmbers]

Hehe, I thought your post was quite honest and adorable. Good vibes coming at ya, regardless the outcome, have fun at your party!

Good luck to you.

But my advice is to just talk to those you feel a connection with because if you go out of your way to talk to everyone, it makes ya look sorta desperate.

My advice to any men who are in the dating scene is:
"Find out about the woman first by asking lots questions instead of advertizing yourself".

When you make a woman to feel safe with you, she would open up and talk about herself.
A functioning and stable woman with self confidence and self love likes a man who allows the woman to be a woman by knowing what makes her feel like a woman.

So, instead of "taking" to women, "ask" them questions about themselves.