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Old 06-08-2016, 01:33 AM
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Cultural binds

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In our tradition we need consent of the family to get married, girls cant make independent decisions ... :(
Sorry. Looks like you're stuck.
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Old 06-08-2016, 01:35 AM
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My best friend advised me to leave itt...he said if the girl really wants you then she will take steps...
That's it, IMO.
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Old 06-08-2016, 03:01 AM
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I find it so shocking that even today in 2016 women are not garunteed free will.
Muzamilsa if this culture is spiritually based have you tried prayer?
Either way I wish you and she both well.
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Old 06-08-2016, 05:16 AM
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I find it so shocking that even today in 2016 women are not garunteed free will.
Muzamilsa if this culture is spiritually based have you tried prayer?
Either way I wish you and she both well.

It is religious, people dont believe in arrange marriages.
I havent prayed devotedly on this yet..
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Old 06-08-2016, 07:04 AM
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I am starting to give up, her brother said no I tried my level best.
Now girl is reluctant to go against family so I am not sure... But she wants to talk even aftr this...
I said I dont want to talk to her... But couldnt help talking to her....
My best friend advised me to leave itt...he said if the girl really wants you then she will take steps...
So now I wont do anything which undermine my self worth in her family..

I notice you make no mention of your own family, or what they think of this, but perhaps this is something for 2 families to negotiate so that everyone feels like they are doing a good thing, and performing their proper responsibility, as it is within the culture.
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Old 06-08-2016, 08:23 AM
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Hi All,

I am in a relationship with a girl and willing to marry her, but his brother is the obstacle over here.

My family spoke to her brother and even I pinged him, he said he will revert back with the answer on yes or no, on the marriage proposal.

Yet he didn't have a word on yes or no.

Girl said his brother is not willing to send her far to the other state.

I live in other state which is around 1500 km from her's.

I was just worried about what will happen next ?...

If you truely want this girl and her eldest brother is the issue and needs to give consent, maybe you need to move yourself closer to her and them to give them a chance to know you better and maybe then they will approve.

Show them that you really will be willing to do things for her.
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