Just a few questions

[Marymartina]

Just a few questions
Everyone yearns to receive ADCs from their deceased loved ones, and as you will note from another post I wrote, my partner of 41 years passed in January 2017, so I am waiting for communications to find comfort in my grief. Over the long and lonely weeks since then, I have thought a lot about the afterlife and these questions came to mind:-
1. Are there rules about the types of ADCs the deceased can perform?
2. I am aware that because their vibrations are different to ours, we cannot see them rather like when the blades of an electric fan are spinning. Yet some spirits are seen, so why are there not more apparitions, and why do some speak and others don’t?
3. I believe that spirits can communicate using telephone calls and text messages. As it should be easier for spirits to communicate using devices like these, why are they so rare in this technological era, and have any of you ever experienced them?
4. Do you think our loved ones miss us?
I have numerous more questions, but this is enough for now, and many thanks to all of you who will reply.

[desert rat]

Many people get what is known as a dream visitation . I got one from a girl friend many years ago . As we all go out of body during deep sleep , but dont remember or remember as a dream , I think we are meeting up with that person on the astral plane . I think there just saying good by , or letting living people know that a soul really does live on . I think some people feel its unnessary to let still living people know and just get on with there after life .

[shoni7510]

What spirits choose to do is different like what human beings choose to do. There is no uniform set of rules that will dictate how spirit A will behave himself. Spirits are with us at the speed of our thoughts, as soon as we think about them they are there, we may not feel them. Dreams are the best place to meet them also.

[alamode]

Yes, dreams is probably the most common communication form. My grandma died last month in March and as soon as my mom told me I knew that my grandma would show up in my dream. It took 3 days and then she showed up in my dream and I know it was really her communicating. In the dream, we were looking at a menu and trying to figure out which food we wanted to order and we were looking at the options and talking about them. I didn't dream of her since, but that is ok, it's not like I'm expecting to.

[slowsnake]

Originally Posted by Marymartina

Just a few questions
Everyone yearns to receive ADCs from their deceased loved ones, and as you will note from another post I wrote, my partner of 41 years passed in January 2017, so I am waiting for communications to find comfort in my grief. Over the long and lonely weeks since then, I have thought a lot about the afterlife and these questions came to mind:-
1. Are there rules about the types of ADCs the deceased can perform?
2. I am aware that because their vibrations are different to ours, we cannot see them rather like when the blades of an electric fan are spinning. Yet some spirits are seen, so why are there not more apparitions, and why do some speak and others don’t?
3. I believe that spirits can communicate using telephone calls and text messages. As it should be easier for spirits to communicate using devices like these, why are they so rare in this technological era, and have any of you ever experienced them?
4. Do you think our loved ones miss us?
I have numerous more questions, but this is enough for now, and many thanks to all of you who will reply.

Hello Marymartina,

I think I posted on another of your threads about the loss of your partner,its a very sad thing the grieving process but it is necessary for your own peace of mind and to de stress your body and mind.
I visited my best mate when he died,it was the day of the funeral,you can read it in my thread which I think is called "my visit to purgatory inJuly 1993",maybe it will help but you can only try!

Kind Regards Billy.

[Ascophore]

Why are you trying to bother someone who has passed on and may or may not remember your face? Do you think that your current existence is so memorable to them that when they return to the other side they retain an inkling of memory that isn't meshed with their soul from the other side? Sure you may meet as acquaintances back 'home' but don't say I didn't warn you if it's more platonic in nature like meeting a friend. And don't be miffed if they are somehow in a form that you don't like or find longing towards.

Also, how do you REALLY know you're getting who you're getting? What if it's just some spirit that knows they can act the part of your lover and get a nice, nutritious energetic snack? Are you really so inclined as to believe that the afterlife is somehow nice or kind? Well, some parts may be nice to your 'true' self when you cross over but kind maybe not. I know if I went 'home' in this body I'd surely be feeling it in the morning...

[slowsnake]

Originally Posted by Ascophore

Why are you trying to bother someone who has passed on and may or may not remember your face? Do you think that your current existence is so memorable to them that when they return to the other side they retain an inkling of memory that isn't meshed with their soul from the other side? Sure you may meet as acquaintances back 'home' but don't say I didn't warn you if it's more platonic in nature like meeting a friend. And don't be miffed if they are somehow in a form that you don't like or find longing towards.

Also, how do you REALLY know you're getting who you're getting? What if it's just some spirit that knows they can act the part of your lover and get a nice, nutritious energetic snack? Are you really so inclined as to believe that the afterlife is somehow nice or kind? Well, some parts may be nice to your 'true' self when you cross over but kind maybe not. I know if I went 'home' in this body I'd surely be feeling it in the morning...

Hello,
Geez that's a bit rough,this poor woman has come here to share her grief,you talk to her in your post like its nothing?

Show a little courtesy to the poster please,she is having a hard time of it coming to terms with the loss of her partner, the last thing she needs is someone telling her her partner won't recognise her?

How the hell do you know that??
Tell me how you gained all this experience on these matters,
Leave her alone,don't post here,be considerate please!

Kind Regards Billy.

[desert rat]

This is an open forum , advice is for free , its coming from different people with many different belief systems . One may take or leave advice as they chose . For some people adc is out side there belief system . There just not open to it Maby grand maw Marry ( the names have been changed to protect the inocent , form dragnet ) is having too much fun hanging out on the astral plane to report back .

[slowsnake]

Originally Posted by desert rat

This is an open forum , advice is for free , its coming from different people with many different belief systems . One may take or leave advice as they chose . For some people adc is out side there belief system . There just not open to it Maby grand maw Marry ( the names have been changed to protect the inocent , form dragnet ) is having too much fun hanging out on the astral plane to report back .

Hello,that's not advice,when you advise you are being positive,to be derogatory to a grieving person is bull****, and the forum can be as open as you think it is,but its not a free for all,its all explained when you join up,its called forum rules and common courtesy,you can't just say what you like without considering the position and situation of the thread starter.
Pretty sad that really!

Kind Regards Billy.

[desert rat]

What I meant by free was that some one could pay $200 , or more to be told that grand maw still loved them , was happy in heaven , but did not know where the key to the bank box was . Yes this forum does have rules . We chose to be insulted or not , or to believe that a loved one is really an energy sucking demon or not . Not that a loved one could or would come back as an energy sucking demon , thats more of an X files show .