I can related. I am totally a heterosexual female as well.
Before I even knew or believed in reincarnation, I was a tom boy as far as I can remember.
As a child, I played with boys a lot and enjoyed hanging out with boys than with girls. (Until my dad put a stop to it, although all intentions were platonic friendship, he did not see it that way. But my dad often said that I would be a perfect as a boy.)
When I played with girls, I always took male roles when playing house with girls.
In my younger days, I tended to gravitate toward male dominated careers and liked to having male friends. - rather than female friends.
I am extremely independent by nature and not emotional.- more logical.
I have a tendency to lead my relationship with men, including husband as well.
"That is right! He can not tell me what to do, ever!"
As I get older, I feel more comfortable with my female being. - Nonetheless, I still need to be either complete equal or be the lead in a relationship with male.
About 20yrs ago, I became aware of reincarnation and due to my own connections/life experience/ life events, I started believing it.
I am a firm believer now about reincarnation.
On past life readings, I found out that my soul had reincarnated into male bodies most of the past lives.
Hence the reason, I act like male, although I am a female in this life.
But I am ok with the whole thing now because I am getting used to it.