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22-06-2017, 03:37 AM
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Seeker
Join Date: Sep 2015
Posts: 27
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Repetitive dream of 3 people
I've been having repeat dreams of 3 major people in my life for the past two weeks , my ex , my grandfather who is deceased, and a friend who just passed very recently .
The first dream was of my grandpa who I have never dreamt of before , smiling at me in the dream of a church and then disappearing .
The next night I dream of my grandfather again at my grandmas house, then the dream continued to my ex bashing my current boyfriend. I have not seen or spoken to my ex in over a year , and we never got closure in real life, continuing on. In the dream I vented to my ex about my current boyfriend , and my ex told me he loved me still , we were dressed very formal.
Now the dreams of my friend deceased , she has been saying things to me in my dreams that I cannot remember , but I keep dreaming of her family members as well , specifically her sister .
A few nights later I dream of my ex again , I was sitting in between his best friend and he was on the opposite side of him , and my boyfriend was sitting near me , and his best friend turned to me and said " you got over him but he will never. E over you " I put my hands over their mouth and then apologized for doing so
The next night I had a dream I was at my grandpas again , even though he was not present . Then I had a dream of my friends deceased mother , and my ex was in that dream too BREIFLY , then just last night he was in it briefly again .
The night before that too I had a dream of my deceased friends family again too.
What's going on here ? Are these people sending me a message ?
Here's the odd part , most of the dreams these people have been in have been surrounded by negative definitions in my dream book , such as being in dirty water , etc etc . I feel something negative in my waking life too . I understand the deceased being there for me , but what does my ex have to do with it?
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22-06-2017, 05:03 AM
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Experiencer
Join Date: Sep 2014
Posts: 261
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Although your ex appeared in a dream with other people you knew that are deceased, each part of the dream is separate. Sometimes the situations in your dreams are a mirror of you. Your subconscious has a way of bringing stuff up in your dreams. Have you been thinking of your ex before he appeared in your dreams? How do you feel about him? Are you completely over him? Are you going through something with your current boyfriend? Were you more comfortable with your ex? You said you never got closure with your relationship with your ex. Deep down, do you want that closure? Do you want to resolve it? If I am to read the dream literally, the part where you are with him and his best friend, you putting a hand over his best friend's mouth is telling. In both dreams, you were told that he still loves you.
If you were to talk to him in real life to get closure and he tells you he still loves you, how would you feel? Is that how you felt about him in the dream? (You don't have to answer all my questions, they are just for you to think about).
As for your grandfather, I think he is just dropping by to say hi. I, too, just had a dream about my grandfather for the first time and he passed away many years ago. However, your friend may have a message for you or just wants to talk. Try to pay attention to what she says if she appears in your dreams next time.
That's all I could interpret without knowing more about the negative aspect of your dreams.
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22-06-2017, 07:17 AM
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Suspended
Join Date: Mar 2017
Posts: 251
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it means you left your ex without having closure & now you have lost a friend as well, & there was still much more you could have done together before the end of your relationship. So your ex & your deceased friend have that in common: They both could have spent more time with you before the separation came.
Your Grandpa showing up means death is not the end at all. Absolutely not. There is no such thing as death & the feelings we had for someone are eternal even if we don't see them for a long time.
I think all the dreams are to help you adjust to the recent loss of your friend. You were able to live without your ex even though you did not have closure, & so you will also be able to carry on with your life without being able to talk to your recently deceased friend.
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22-06-2017, 04:49 PM
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Master
Join Date: May 2011
Posts: 5,806
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all those dreams involve "old energies", in the semblances of people who'd
been a part of your life experiences. the "negative definitions" of specific
dream imagery may be saying that you need to have 'closure' with these
energies, and flush away that 'dirty water'.
each has a different unfinished business in play for you. the deceased friend
may wish for you to say something to her sister... you can't recall her words,
but it's probably obvious to you anyways (i assume she'd like you to touch
base with the sister, and remind her of the love between them).
the ex appears to need some "formal" break to be made.
i'm thinking that the grandfather has had something of value to bequeath you;
maybe you can discover something about him that you weren't aware of if
you sift through whatever artifacts he's left behind.
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