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23-05-2011, 02:51 AM
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bringing this up...
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12-06-2011, 04:35 AM
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bringing this up...
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22-06-2011, 09:56 PM
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What do you do when you don't know what you should be forgiving or who???
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22-06-2011, 10:10 PM
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Also what if that person can't forgive you ?
I have forgiven myself and the person for the mad situation we were in .
I have actually spoken to them in person and said I forgive you but it back fired and has turned into more angst aimed at me :(
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23-06-2011, 03:05 AM
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Originally Posted by crystalfairy
What do you do when you don't know what you should be forgiving or who???
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crystalfairy... You could start by making a general statement like, "I forgive anyone who contributed to my _(problem or issue)_ in anyway." Breathe in your belly and repeat this for a few minutes.
As you do this pay attention to any memories or feelings or issues that might show up. Then you may forgive for those more specifically.
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23-06-2011, 03:09 AM
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Originally Posted by Topaz
Also what if that person can't forgive you ?
I have forgiven myself and the person for the mad situation we were in .
I have actually spoken to them in person and said I forgive you but it back fired and has turned into more angst aimed at me :(
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Topaz... We can't control what someone else does. And we don't forgive in order to try to get someone else to, because they are free to make they own choices. All we can do is keep forgiving and letting go within ourselves.
Now you have an opportunity to forgive this person for not accepting your forgiving, and for turning more against you, just within yourself. 
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01-07-2011, 07:41 AM
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That is an excellent post Xan. If we can forgive we feel a lot better about ourselves. It releases tension and bad feelings. I am going to try to remember to practice forgiving everyday. I do forgive people but when you get muck that comes in your life unexpected, you need to be able to accept it, think O.K.and move on. That way you will not feel hurt and take on all the muck that happens.
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01-07-2011, 08:45 AM
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Liberating!
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01-07-2011, 03:38 PM
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Originally Posted by Topaz
Also what if that person can't forgive you ?
I have forgiven myself and the person for the mad situation we were in .
I have actually spoken to them in person and said I forgive you but it back fired and has turned into more angst aimed at me :(
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Topaz, good for you for letting them know.
If they couldn't acknowledge your feelings, much less respond in kind, that's on them.
As Xan said, now you can...
...forgive them for not being able to acknowledge your expression of forgiveness,
...accept that's where they are at & that they cannot truly limit you in any way,
...accept that YOU are free to move on, with or without them,
...and let it go.
Peace & blessings,
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01-07-2011, 04:40 PM
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Yes... Forgiving leads to accepting ourselves and each other as we are... which is the best and healthiest attitude for all our relationships and our own well being.
Xan
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