Can anyone look into the meaning of these numbers?

[alcyone]

So for a long time I have known about a link between me and another person with our birth dates....

I'll just show you what I have seen.

Her birth day is 10/31/1975
1+0+3+1+1+9+7+5=27- the age this person was when we met
2+7=9- her life path

My birth day is 08/12/1989
8+1+2+1+9+8+9=38- the age she was when I started to "let go"
3+8=11- my life path (our life path numbers are 11 digits apart)

I see 38 on the clock all the time, every day..
Add up her life path and mine 38+27= 11 (reduced from 65) does this mean anything at all?


If I add her life path and mine its 2
11+9=20/2

If I add her birth year and mine
1975+1989=3964 or reduced to 22

If I add her day of birth and mine
12+31=43 or reduced to 7

And her month and mine
10+8=18 (the age I was when she left) or 9 her life path.

Its like they link up in weird ways. Either her birth date or mine totalled up equal the ages where something significant happened, or there's a 11 there and I don't know what it means if anything?

Sincerely,
A confused person
:)