I didnt know if this is the right place to post this, but i'll try anyway...
A couple of years ago I met the love of my life, I have never been more in love with someone than him, we were friends for a while, and then somewhere, along the way, something clicked and we both fell for each other. The fact that we were friends made such a solid foundation, but that said even as friends he would always try and 'fix' me, and we always argued as friends, mostly because we cared so much for each other, and I always ended up crying.
However, this was shortly lived as things happened, both of our faults, and a lot of arguments arose and he ended up cheating on me. I was so beyond devastated, I lost myself, and was like a shell of a person...Since then i've learnt alot and grown up. I loved him so much, that I forgave him days after he told me...But I could never forget how hurt I was by someone who was my friend and my lover, someone I fell really for. We spoke not long after and he did apologise, and I thought that was the end of that and have been living happily since.
Weirdly enough, I was listening to a guided spiritual healing meditation before bed, that is suppose to help clear any blocks and patterns from lives and past lives. The next day I woke up to what was a novel of an apology, and I was spooked...especially as a month ago or so that I was going through my laptop and found pictures of us that I thought I deleted. He was doing something similar and found messages and had to apologise again, but this time it seemed more deep of an apology to the point where he was so shocked by the way he treated me, that he can barely forgive himself.
I told him I always forgave him, and he suggested that we should be friends. I dont believe we are the same people from two years ago, and I told him if i am friends with someone, I dont want it to be a case where they pop up and say hi for the sake of it, i want friends who are active in my life. Since then I have made two attempts to talk to him and put effort in...But I dont know if it's worth being friends at all?
I found the whole thing strange, and thought it might be what some say 'synchronicity'? I feel very confused as to whether he should be in my life or not. It made it even more confusing when he said we should see what should happen between us. A thought that never crossed my mind until then.
I truly feel that if a person wants to be in your life then they will be...And I also believe if two people are meant to be together, the universe will create all situations for that to happen. But I just dont know. I even asked him if he meant it about being in my life, not just saying it for the sake of it and he said 'I wouldn't have said it if it wasn't true'.
I'm getting frustated and dont know what to do
All advice would be so gratefully appreciated!