spirit woman

[youngers1810]

Hi all
i was hoping help from a medium i see ghosts/spirits pretty much all the time though i have a lack in confidence with communicating with them and being assured of who they are its a confidence thing i have and its quite mentally draining emotionally being low in confidence
anyways i see a woman spirit she came through and couple of times she looked very real she also visited my place of work
she always smiling from what ive seen of her she has long ginger hair and she wears a white dress down to her ankles .

i was wondering if a experienced medium could shed light on who she is and her name

also i so want to see my auntie spirit i could swore she sat down beside me in bed once
i said why cant i see her she said i was not ready
its been a few years and more since then and i still dont seem to see ghosts as they were when they were alive

What am i doing wrong by not seeing them ?
I always hear my name called and i get nudged on my body and always sense someone with me

i have seen ghosts in the corner of my eyes but not in my frontal vision apart from the red haired spirit i just dont understand .