4 dreams in one

Ladyrose92 · #1 18-01-2018, 08:20 AM

Last night. I dreamt I was at a party with Matt he got on the Cocaine and was lying to me telling me he wasn't. But his behaviour got more and more out of hand. It was obvious he was. I was texting asking if he wanted me to be in this social gathering that was going on and he wasn't responding. I rang him and he was in a car with another woman that felt like his wife? I could hear them talking to each other. Actually I then realised it was a woman on the phone to him directing him to the medical centre as he couldn't find it.

Also my mum wanted to buy a telly (my partner actually does and is getting one this month). She was the same, drinking and disappearing on a tangent. I went to find her and my step dad was there saying ask grandad what's going on. I said oh dear is she on one and he said yes. He said she's denying what she's done and won't admit she's not seeing the truth. He told me not to worry and just get on with my own life and it will be alright.

Then there was another scene at work, our team leader barb gave us a financial planning sheet. Me Sam and billie. When she gave me mine she threw it in my face and the paper hit me hurting a little. I was siting there feeling hurt wondering why she done that.

after it all. I was sitting in a movie theatre and there was a little boy on my right side. He couldn't see so I swapped seats and sat him on my lap so he could see better as the screen was to our left through a gap. I was asking if he was alright and could see ok and generally comforting him, it was nice to have a cuddle. Then I realised his parents were next to me so I apologised and explained I could see that he couldn't see and that's why I moved him. They were fine about it and we sat there watching the film.

What do these dreams mean?

H:O:R:A:C:E · #2 18-01-2018, 04:23 PM

these dreams touch on some of your earlier recent dreams.
these vignettes are providing the (spiritual) nourishment which you'd sought
to extract from the burger dreams, where your desires were thwarted.
patiently providing loving concern for the welfare of those in your circle is the
means to expanding your capacity to behave godly in these circumstances.
[it is how your higher self identity has 'supported' you during your
misdirected efforts to gain worldly sustenance to feed your spirit.]

the cocaine addiction appears to closely correlate to the avalanche dream,
where your bf has become engulfed in meaningless activities which don't
serve his healthy growth. your spirit, reaching out to him from the inside,
is what can provide him the assistance he needs to get recovery.

the second scene is as the first, but it's a step removed... it serves to show
you how the events of the first scene can have repercussions which extend
beyond itself (like ripples on a pond); a television projects images to a distant
location. it's not your place to intercede [directly] in that scene; deal with
the earlier situation to your full capacity and that will help.

the team leader who throws your planning sheet might correspond to your
higher self providing you with your 'marching orders'... in a manner that
has a scolding feel to it (as if a mild punishment for you having not paid
attention at some earlier junction). get on the same page with your own
best intentions and proceed with the tasks at hand.

the movie theatre bit is showing you in a 'parental capacity' for others
in your venue. you're in a position to afford assistance to others whose
view of the proceedings is obscured. further, you are trusted. in "real life",
the physical realm of existence, you are in a position to provide useful
perspective to certain others nearby. let the show proceed.

Ladyrose92 · #3 18-01-2018, 05:14 PM

That is so true, and I've been doing that today, how funny! At work I realise I hardly socialise so today I've just been chatting to people and being supportive and I felt SO much better and they seemed really happy too! So I understand what you mean when you say providing patient loving concern is what will allow godly expressions :) yay

Ok, I see, I've been inpatient with him lately, thinking he'll just do what he wants as he overcome this for years but has done it a few times recently, I probably even seem pretty pee'd off from his perspective so I will definitely work on providing the loving care from the inside for him too which hopefully will help him overcome this more fully.

I see yes, I have noticed there is a connection between my relationship with myself, my partner and my mum. I've noticed as she has grown, so have I and vice versa, I've stayed back with that situation as my mum has ended her marriage of 20 years, so glad to see this is what the dream advises too!

Oh dear haha I was scared and shocked, but it did make me wonder what on earth was that for haha also something else it may be, because it was financial documents, Ive been putting off ringing a debt I have, but I rang today and found out it had been wiped!! Amazing, so could be a wake up call to deal with that too. But yes, It is a wake up call to be true to myself and not get distracted by other things.

I love being parental, I feel the reason I didn't really socialise with people at work is because I'm the only spiritual person really, and they always take the pee out of things I believe in, so I don't say anything. But I do feel awkward inside like these are the moments I should stand up and share my view. If this is what it means, then I will endeavor to do this as socialising more today really opened the day up to better vibes! Also, I have been training people at work, so that reminds me of that, they say at work they trust me, so maybe it refers to this situation. I need to get over the fear of prosecution speaking my truth lol yes let the show proceed.

So glad with the messages in this dream, glad to have my dreams back, and thank you for your help in interpreting the meaning!

dream jo · #4 18-01-2018, 05:45 PM

it tims its gud 2 hav 4 dreams in 1

H:O:R:A:C:E · #5 19-01-2018, 03:30 AM

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Originally Posted by Ladyrose92

I love being parental, I feel the reason I didn't really socialise with people at work is because I'm the only spiritual person really, and they always take the pee out of things I believe in, so I don't say anything. But I do feel awkward inside like these are the moments I should stand up and share my view. If this is what it means, then I will endeavor to do this as socialising more today really opened the day up to better vibes! Also, I have been training people at work, so that reminds me of that, they say at work they trust me, so maybe it refers to this situation. I need to get over the fear of prosecution speaking my truth lol yes let the show proceed.

in the dream, you had surrendered your position, so as to allow a youngster
to gain a better view of the proceedings ("the show"). to translate that idea
into your waking life reality would involve you NOT "standing up" and stating
your view of things (that behavior would effectively become a show).
it would involve you sharing your perspective in a quiet, subtle, and
respectful manner, so as not to distract the 'audience' from their experience.

you do not require the approval/acclaim of others; to seek for it is to be
looking for cheeseburgers which never seem to materialize. your growth
will come as you allow yourself to provide loving, non-needy energies
to others... not through extracting it from the world.
(just my opinion)

blossomingtree · #6 19-01-2018, 03:43 AM

Always a wonder to read you, H:O:R:A:C:E - welcome back! And Happy New Year.

BT

Ladyrose92 · #7 19-01-2018, 10:24 AM

ah I see! This is new territory for me so thank you for explaining, so when people are having discussions about mental health for example and they are taking the mickey, would I just gently share my perspective, e.g. "I would say people with mental health issues just have an imbalance in some way that can be resolved"? That is what I believe and would saying that kindly rather than strong and opinionated, encourage others to take a more inclusive view on topics like this? Is this how you mean? Instead of feeling like I need to stand up and state my view is needing approval, but just sharing what I believe in a subtle way is what will be giving non-needy energies?

I had a big realisation last night that I have been in service to self, and opening up and being there for others is service to others, which satisfies me more than when I am just focusing on myself, so is this what these series of dreams is relaying to me? the cheeseburger vs real satisfaction. Thank you for your opinion, I really appreciate it, it helps me to understand better!

Ladyrose92 · #8 20-01-2018, 10:06 AM

Ahh well lets see, I did have a sneaking suspicion that it wouldn't happen, but I thought I would just accept it and see what happens. Urgh I have been, I don't mean to but I could be better with money, thank you perfection!

H:O:R:A:C:E · #9 20-01-2018, 08:54 PM

i come to a better understanding of things through communicating with you.
what i'm thinking of is like the parable of the two wolves:
http://www.firstpeople.us/FP-Html-Le...-Cherokee.html
in the situations you've described, there are instances in which you've
wanted to obtain something [food for the soul]. the question is which
wolf is that sustenance meant to feed. it seems that the ego-centric,
self-servicing wolf has forever gone unsatisfied (enough is never enough
for that wolf... it is envious of other's portions). the thing to recognize
is that you've never become ill due to lacking what you've needed in
those dreams -- your true requirements have been met.
in your dealings with others, choose the path which strengthens the
wolf inside which you want to become stronger.

Ladyrose92 · #10 22-01-2018, 02:48 PM

Yes I would say that is a fair conclusion, I've been using this to practice in my interactions over the weekend and I can see how we give the power to whichever part of our self we choose to, and being aware of this makes it clear its just as easy as making the choice. Thank you!