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Old 11-03-2012, 07:20 PM
Mayflow
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I think "too intense" means back off buddy. This does not seem complicated.
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Old 11-03-2012, 11:32 PM
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I think when someone says that the feelings are "too intense" it is basically just a way of saying they're scared. Scared of feeling so much, so deeply. Scared because they maybe weren't prepared for it, so they want to step back and have time to look at things more clearly....
As for myself, I don't get that, especially when it comes to a romantic relationship (whether it be a TF relationship or not...)
I guess for those who find it "too intense" it's kind of like jumping into a swimming pool. You either jump in right away and get the shock over with, or you creep in bit by bit....guess it depends on the individual what they can handle....
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Old 12-03-2012, 01:23 AM
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When I first met my SC (not my TF, my H) he did not like my 'intensity'. So I backed off. I suppressed the feelings of intensity, the emotion that was trying to get out. I pretended like everything was 'okay' just to appease him. He couldn't handle it..he didn't want to 'deal' with intensity as I think he was scared of both of us being overwhelmed.

Reconnecting with my TF so many years later, I know see that suppressing that emotional intensity was wrong. It needs to come out and if it doesn't, there can be long-term damage. My tf encourages me to let it out, he loves that about me. It is what our relationship is all about. And I'm so grateful to him for showing me that it's okay to be intense and emotional.
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Old 12-03-2012, 05:49 PM
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For me, "too intense" simply means too much to handle.
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Old 12-03-2012, 06:34 PM
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When I discovered that intense pull/feeling thing.lol I though whoa dude. I defiantly wanted to explore it. First by have i felt like this nooooo. then I wanted to examine it. I thought oh this is what finding that person is like. and I thought (was single at the time) I should feel like this if its exactly right for me. I also want it to be a romantic thing-to me its the ONE......
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