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Originally Posted by TonySG
Hi
I have found that being around certain types of people is very draining. I work hard to keep my energy high. I have been aware that certain people drain my energy and they seem to enjoy being around me. My presence somehow gives these people an uplift and energizes them. But at the same time, it makes them become a little arrogant and I sometimes find their behavior rude towards me.
I end up leaving feeling drained and incredibly tired. It happened to be recently and I had a pain/discomfort in my solar plexus area for a few days.
Does this mean the other person may have 'corded' me? I don't want to be around these types of people sometimes but I feel I am being selfish, if my presence helps liberate them, then maybe I should help? I would prefer to be able to protect my energy regardless of who I am around and stop others from draining me.
Can anyone relate? Thanks
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Good on you for realising others are draining and depleting your energy, it is a horrible feeling of realisation and one that can make a person feel invaded and violated.
I'm not sure what you mean by the word *corded* but I assume, your trying to ask if someone has deliberately attached their cord to you. The attaching of cords happens with anyone and everyone we allow to connect with us. Be it friends family or aquaintences.
Energy is everywhere, we walk through residue energy everyday, and it covers our body so we carry it around, we breathe it into our system and body. We cannot escape from energy, and vice versa with our energy as it flows from us, good energy, bad energy, sickness its all over an within us and only place we actually feel like we are ourselves, is when we are at home in our safe haven, or after a shower.
Then we have people themselves. A lot of people don't realise when they are accidentally sending or unconsciously draining another persons energy, it is almost like an automatic transference (which someone else mentioned in their reply to your post)
Learning how to protect yourself by placing a white light protection around your body will help you, and its like a shield that covers your entire body and nothing can penetrate it.
Learning how to ground yourself, so whenever you feel other energies they dont make you feel dizzy or topple you over
You mention you work hard at keeping your energy high. With this, understand that whenever we are feeling happy and vibrant and go near other people who are feeling miserable or angry, its like a *clash of energies* or whenever a person needs a shoulder to cry on, the emotions that come out of them via energy can wrap itself around us and start to suffocate. If we are not in control of ourselves our energy will automatically go to the other person like a healing transmittance, and/or we switch emotions where the other person takes the beauty and we walk away with their ****** energy. It is almost impossible to get away from all the energy that's out there, or that comes off people.
Distancing yourself from those around you would help, but then a lot of us have friends and family who we want to be near. So its by being aware of energy, and learning how to protect yourself.
You mention your chakras felt painful and discomfort. The sacral (spleen) and solar plexus chakras but mostly the whole stomach are affected the most. When energy is being directed from another person especially verbally, that energy gets sucked into our system via our belly button, (hence if anyone notices whenever they are in a confrontation, they always fold their arms or hold their hands across the stomach) When energy goes into the stomach, especially negative energy, it begins to ferment and heat up causing havoc in the digestive system and organs. Women are more at risk as they have the uterus and ovaries in those areas too.
But energy can have damaging affects when in the system.
You are not being selfish for wanting to be near people regardless of their emotions or how their energy affects you. You only need to be aware and remove yourself at that moment if you feel your being drained. Or by learning how to protect. I will send you on how to do white light protection.
Be proud of yourself, we can all relate to what you wrote, a lot of us can feel energy on a very high calibre, and its an everyday feeling for us we cannot escape from. Well unless we going lock ourselves up in our houses and not go anywhere lolol