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Old 01-07-2019, 09:46 AM
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Unhappy 2 Years And STILL In Love With "False Twin"

Awhile ago, I came here and posted about a man I thought was my twinflame. The catch is, I found my actual twinflame shortly after.

I met my "false twin" (for lack of better words) in 2017 and was in love with him instantly. Something inside my soul whispered he was "the one" and I never knew what that meant but I assumed at the time it meant he was my twinflame, I guess.

Anyways, in a few months, it will be 2 years -- since I fell in love with D and I still feel as though he is the "love of my life" for lack of a better word. I can't even explain myself properly.

I wish I had been in love with my actual twinflame but I'm not and it sucks. Not only can I not relate to people but also , the circumstances are not ideal at all.

Sorry. I am just letting off steam and am annoyed. I've always had the feeling I'd love this man forever ..since I laid eyes on him..and now look.. I'm creeping up on 2 years already.

Also, me and him have strong telepathy..So I can feel when he is distant and when he is close. We have such a STRONG bond.

Ps.. My actual twinflame died...
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Old 03-07-2019, 08:59 PM
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Firstly I would question as to whether this man who died was really your twin flame if you didn’t love him then I would doubt it.

The love for the catalyst or false twin flame is still very strong this person is a near split, their soul carry a very close vibrational signature to your own soul and you’ve likely spent many past lives with them, In preparation for being with the true twin, probably spent more lifetimes with them, than your true twin flame you can also feel intense love for a soulmate that you spent many lives with

If you truly believe that this person is a false twin then I’d forget about it, because all “false twins” are still “twin flames” someone else’s Twinflame, they have their own twin flame here on earth and regardless of what anyone thinks ALL twin flames are coming together within the next few years and if it was really your twin flame that died he will be coming back as a walk-in soul, but again I doubt it, I doubt youve yet to meet a true Twinflame.


First of all, thanks for reading.. I DO LOVE my actual twinflame..It's just very pure. I KNOW the guy who passed away is my TRUE twin flame and I don't need anyone giving their opinion on whether or not I found a "real" twin as it is a subjective experience. You need to watch your tone while talking to others about their experiences and not project your own experiences onto others' truths..

The arrogant approach, "I know what a true twinflame is and you don't.." doesn't work for me.

(How do I know YOU know what you're even talking about ??...and so forth...It would be like arguing over the "correct" God.)

So, I would just leave comments like that one of it. IDC what you doubt concerning my TF or whatever. Comments like that really make no sense to make, unless you wanna have a circular argument...which is what it leads to..( unresolvable debate/argument.)...


Plus I have not given any reasons why I believe the dead guy is my TF..So you don't even have the details to even begin to decipher....I only realized what I had been doing wrong AFTER I saw my REAL twinflame..

In short, my soulmate does not mirror my spiritual essence but my twin does. All of the guys before never mirrored my essence back at me like my twin. The only reason I called my soulmate my near twin is because i mistook him for it. I don't even like the term, hence why I wrote it in parentheses.

Maybe my TF is already a walk in now or who knows how THAT all plays out...

My soulmate is someone else's twin. I get that..but we had more of an earthly encounter...Having a twinflame does not suddenly end all attraction and passionate relationships with others on the planet. =/

That is the angle I was coming from.

This post was written out of emotion, as I implied in the op... but I'm good now.
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Old 03-07-2019, 09:15 PM
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Firstly I would question as to whether this man who died was really your twin flame if you didn’t love him then I would doubt it.

The love for the catalyst or false twin flame is still very strong this person is a near split, their soul carry a very close vibrational signature to your own soul and you’ve likely spent many past lives with them, In preparation for being with the true twin, probably spent more lifetimes with them, than your true twin flame you can also feel intense love for a soulmate that you spent many lives with

If you truly believe that this person is a false twin then I’d forget about it, because all “false twins” are still “twin flames” someone else’s Twinflame, they have their own twin flame here on earth and regardless of what anyone thinks ALL twin flames are coming together within the next few years and if it was really your twin flame that died he will be coming back as a walk-in soul, but again I doubt it, I doubt youve yet to meet a true Twinflame.

You should listen to the words above when it comes to the true Twinflame, I don't believe in such things, but I do believe in True Love, sometimes it's better to see things from a point outside your subjective view, because your subjective view may hide the truth from you.

Why I am even writting if I don't believe in the twimflame thing? Once I thought I found the love of my life and I was sure that I am destinated to be with that person and yet here I am all alone.It was one of the most painful moments in my life when everything stopped and I don't want you or anyone else to experience such pain, believe in TRUE LOVE not in ideal people, ideal people don't exist.The person you think is perfect today may be replaced with another perfect person tomorrow.When I say "perfect", I am only talking about our own subjective view about the perfect person, or the soulmate or the twin flame, call it how you want, it's the same thing.
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Old 05-07-2019, 01:49 AM
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To be honest, you sound quite lucky. You've found your Twin Flame (the one that died) AND you've found a remarkable guy that you love. Maybe "False Twin" is a bit misleading, because the term sort of makes it sound like he's a lie... which he isn't. He's a real guy, one that you really love.

What if (hypothetically speaking) it was all planned for it to play out this way?. That you would meet your Twin Flame, but loose him, but find someone who feels like "the love of your life?" Not a common occurrence (I don't think) but actually rather beautiful.

I don't accept the idea that you're somehow depriving some other woman of THEIR Twin Flame by being with the guy you love. That's hooey. Most people will not meet/be with their Twin in this lifetime anyway. If it's meant to be it will be, and loving him in no way would change that. And keep in mind that not all Twin Flame relationships are romantic ones anyway.

So bottom line… do what feels right to you. It sounds like you're quite happy loving this guy, even if you don't believe he's your Twin. So love him. Follow your heart.
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Old 05-07-2019, 02:16 AM
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To be honest, you sound quite lucky. You've found your Twin Flame (the one that died) AND you've found a remarkable guy that you love.

As far as this guy being "remarkable" that is up for debate. Of course, I feel intensely for him but I could just be not seeing him for who he truly is, in an Earthly sense. I caught him in some lies along the way, which really hurt my feelings. I feel quite "cursed" and that's why I made this thread.

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Maybe "False Twin" is a bit misleading, because the term sort of makes it sound like he's a lie... which he isn't. He's a real guy, one that you really love.

I agreed that False Twin wasn't the right term but I had no clue how else to phrase it since I did mistake him for my twinflame.


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What if (hypothetically speaking) it was all planned for it to play out this way?. That you would meet your Twin Flame, but loose him, but find someone who feels like "the love of your life?" Not a common occurrence (I don't think) but actually rather beautiful.


I definitely give this leeway. I don't believe that everyone is meant to be with their twinflames romantically. (Of course I don't have to be right but it's just something I do believe.) When I first saw my soulmate, something told me he was "the one" but I never knew what that meant. I sure don't believe he is the twinflame, though because he doesn't mirror my essence.

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I don't accept the idea that you're somehow depriving some other woman of THEIR Twin Flame by being with the guy you love. That's hooey. Most people will not meet/be with their Twin in this lifetime anyway. If it's meant to be it will be, and loving him in no way would change that. And keep in mind that not all Twin Flame relationships are romantic ones anyway.

I agree with this paragraph. As you've stated, I don't believe all twinflame relationships are meant to be romantic in this life. I'm not even sure if I believe at base, they are romantic anyways or rather just a simple truth. (They are spiritual mirrors.) Human romance and spiritual oneness can be more or less important depending on our own values. I agree though: Loving this man doesn't change fate.

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So bottom line… do what feels right to you. It sounds like you're quite happy loving this guy, even if you don't believe he's your Twin. So love him. Follow your heart.

At this point, I severed friendship with him last year but yet I can still feel him. He is not perfect as none of us are but I can still spiritually feel him around. This is great advice, though and also, thank you for staying on topic.
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Old 05-07-2019, 02:38 AM
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I agree with Blue tiger

Don’t let one opinion make you feel otherwise. She is no expert. No one is.


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