Resisting - am I right ?

Hi everyone,

This year has been a roller coaster to say the least. I have experienced several changes.

Today I am feeling a strong pull to send a text message to a man a care very deeply about, but trying to resist this urge. Am I right to do so ?

Today is the 15th anniversary of his brothers suicide. Something I know that troubles him deeply as he was not about at the time. I know that he will be suffering today and I hate to think of him hurting alone.

This man was my boyfriend when I was 17 , we broke up in difficult circumstances and had no contact. We reunited at the start of this year, however, he is a troubled soul and our relationship became too much for him. He asked me for time and space and I've not heard from him in 5 months, despite me trying to reach out to him.

I know he is suffering today and I'm torn between texting him or not. I wouldn't want to add to as he puts it "critters in his head" but I also want him to know I care.

Does anyone or can anyone gain any guidance from the spirits for me ? Thanks

[TMeganV]

Do what you feel is right. Personally, I think I'd send him something like "I'm thinking about you today" or something like that. Although that does sound better in Dutch. :p Just letting him know you're still there for him.

Yeah I agree with Megan.. even add something like you don't have to text me back.. just wanted to let you know.

Thanks for the replies.

I have just left it... I know he would be struggling today thinking about his brother and decided it would just be selfish of me to add to the stuff that must be going through his head already.