Lost?!

Skatergirl · #1 17-06-2014, 03:12 AM

So I dated this boy that is two years younger than I am, Josh. Well, I am 16 and he's 14. We broke up and dated twice. My BFF doesn't like him much, no one really does, but they don't know him like I do. Anyways, even if we are exes, we became very close to each other. Now he's back with his ex and it hurts because I lost him, he's really my best friend. We both love each other very much, but it was hurting us both because we didn't know how to fix us... Now we don't talk, I can't stop thinking about him.

Should I just forget him? But how?! Should I talk to him? What should I say?

#2 17-06-2014, 06:30 AM

If he was your best friend you wouldn't have lost him, have you heard that if you love someone, set them free, if they come back it was meant to be? I'd suggest you step back, and spend time on yourself, and with other friends, don't obsess over this. Try to keep yourself busy with enjoyable activities.

Ascension · #3 17-06-2014, 02:54 PM

First love is always a profond one , no matter what you do
it will stay in your hearth .

Try to keep the possitive and let go of the rest , you have to turn the page
in order to release these feelings .
You are very young and i think it's normal to feel how you do
your inner self is not balanced yet and it's hard for both of
you to grasp the problem .

Volaju · #4 17-06-2014, 03:21 PM

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Originally Posted by primrose

If he was your best friend you wouldn't have lost him, have you heard that if you love someone, set them free, if they come back it was meant to be? I'd suggest you step back, and spend time on yourself, and with other friends, don't obsess over this. Try to keep yourself busy with enjoyable activities.

That just made me so happy, thank you for writing this, Prim~