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View Poll Results: Are you in a relationship or are you single?
I am in a relationship at the moment. 53 28.19%
I am single at the moment. 135 71.81%
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Old 19-10-2018, 01:31 AM
Winter Song Winter Song is offline
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Currently I am single again, having ended a relationship recently.
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Old 19-10-2018, 12:04 PM
Altair Altair is offline
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Single. A life without duties towards others (non-colleagues) suits me just fine. My freedom is sacred to me..

I find it an interesting topic considering the fact that around 1/4 to sometimes even 1/3 of people (see The Economist) in developed nations stays single and childless. In the past more people found a partner.. in their home village or through arrangements. These days people travel around seeking jobs in different places and having to build up a life elsewhere more than once. That makes social life less a given. You have to work for it, some seem okay with being single and others just hate the whole drama of getting rejected 99% of the times. Most guys hate it. I can’t blame people for wanting to be or stay single. Better be at peace with yourself.. The increase of singleness IMO just shows what has always been obvious.. that a lot of people just aren’t made for monogamy and family duties.
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Old 05-11-2018, 05:05 PM
Honza Honza is offline
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I'm still single too. I've always been single, never been in a relationship. Not even on a date. Nothing. Since my teenage years, men have always told me that I am "not good enough". What a disgusting thing to say to a person!

Difference is now though - after a lifetime of wanting to love and be loved, I've given up on this subject. I'm through with it - I wouldn't want a husband running around creating havoc, throwing beer cans about and yelling about football/soccer, telling me how to live my life and interfering with everything, and generally behaving like some nincompoop.

Deep down I do long to love and be loved - but it's time to get a kitty again, I miss my cat who passed over several years ago.

At least with a cat there are no problems. I can keep everything in my house all pink and frilly, I don't have to deal with some idiot waffling nonsense and I don't have to explain myself to anyone.

Not that I'm happy being single - but I'm making the best of what is being forced on me anyway instead of being all depressed over why I am considered "not good enough".

That sounds very sad. I am sorry men have been telling you this. There is a great book called "You Can Heal Your Life" which deals with such issues. By Louise Hay.
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Old 05-11-2018, 06:31 PM
M.Tesla M.Tesla is offline
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Single yet not alone because at some time grateful for the lovely souls I've met that I'm connected to, no matter how far apart or where ever they may go. <3
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Old 07-11-2018, 06:31 AM
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I was single for 11.5 years. I tried the dating thing two years ago, it was awful. Than I met someone a couple of months ago...
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Old 07-11-2018, 07:53 PM
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Honza - thank you, just ordered that book! I know Hay House Productions, they publish some great books.
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