how to tell if he/she really is your twin flame

[unicorn68]

ive been musing over this one for a few weeks now,there are plenty of websites that go into the top 20 reasons etc.but ONE thing that none of them have said to date is that when you truly have met your twin flame that there is a complete absence of JEALOUSY.NADA.none.no matter what.at least from my perspective and also another twin that i have been chatting to on this forum big time.just a calm acceptance.of whatever.

[quipster]

Originally Posted by unicorn68

ive been musing over this one for a few weeks now,there are plenty of websites that go into the top 20 reasons etc.but ONE thing that none of them have said to date is that when you truly have met your twin flame that there is a complete absence of JEALOUSY.NADA.none.no matter what.at least from my perspective and also another twin that i have been chatting to on this forum big time.just a calm acceptance.of whatever.

I thought I'd found mine recently, then realized it was my imagination. Then more odd syncronisims occued...thought she was IT again. Now I'm doubting things again.

It's a roller coaster ride!
Anyone offer any solid advice?

[FairyCrystal]

I beg to differ. That's the ideal scenario, but most of us aren't there yet and will get triggered upon meeting their TF.
So there can be all kinds of 'negative' feelings, including jealousy.
Calm acceptance, once you've worked through enough cleansing, yes.
I'm guessing you mean true surrender when you speak of calm acceptance, which boils down to unconditional love. A term easily used by many, a state achieved by as good as no one.
Mostly when you meet you're TF it's the start of a very bumpy ride. Quite the opposite from calm acceptance upon meeting.

[unicorn68]

Originally Posted by quipster

I thought I'd found mine recently, then realized it was my imagination. Then more odd syncronisims occued...thought she was IT again. Now I'm doubting things again.

It's a roller coaster ride!
Anyone offer any solid advice?

like i said.if there is any jealousy whatsoever then as far as im concerned it is NOT a twin flame connection.soulmate possibly.but twin flame connection is from a higher understanding from the 5d.there cannot possibly be any jealousy.it is the one emotion that will be just simply not there.fears probably cos we are still working on ourselves,but NO JEALOUSY.after all how can you be UNCONDITIONAL if you are feeling jealous?(and the same goes for my twin i know for a fact that she isnt jealous in the slightest)and now every time we meet we flame together when we look into each others eyes and still happily set each other free....and ye its a rocky ride,because it forces you to understand what unconditional love really means.

[Angel44]

I disagree. I experienced jealousy with my TF...part of the work I had to do in separation. Had we been perfect, there would have been no need to separate. There is no one size fits all in these relationships. And I am MOST DEFINITELY in a TF situation.

[quipster]

Originally Posted by unicorn68

like i said.if there is any jealousy whatsoever then as far as im concerned it is NOT a twin flame connection.soulmate possibly.but twin flame connection is from a higher understanding from the 5d.there cannot possibly be any jealousy.it is the one emotion that will be just simply not there.fears probably cos we are still working on ourselves,but NO JEALOUSY.after all how can you be UNCONDITIONAL if you are feeling jealous?(and the same goes for my twin i know for a fact that she isnt jealous in the slightest)and now every time we meet we flame together when we look into each others eyes and still happily set each other free....and ye its a rocky ride,because it forces you to understand what unconditional love really means.

I feel alot of strong emotions now but I must say jealousy is not one them.

[Angel44]

Originally Posted by unicorn68

like i said.if there is any jealousy whatsoever then as far as im concerned it is NOT a twin flame connection.soulmate possibly.but twin flame connection is from a higher understanding from the 5d.there cannot possibly be any jealousy.it is the one emotion that will be just simply not there.fears probably cos we are still working on ourselves,but NO JEALOUSY.after all how can you be UNCONDITIONAL if you are feeling jealous?(and the same goes for my twin i know for a fact that she isnt jealous in the slightest)and now every time we meet we flame together when we look into each others eyes and still happily set each other free....and ye its a rocky ride,because it forces you to understand what unconditional love really means.

Jealousy is a FEAR!! Unconditional 5d love is the absence of fear. In my opinion, unconditional 5d love is Jesus status and I doubt if any of us are there yet. That is the goal and our TF's are leading us there but we're not there yet.

[Angel44]

Originally Posted by FairyCrystal

I beg to differ. That's the ideal scenario, but most of us aren't there yet and will get triggered upon meeting their TF.
So there can be all kinds of 'negative' feelings, including jealousy.
Calm acceptance, once you've worked through enough cleansing, yes.
I'm guessing you mean true surrender when you speak of calm acceptance, which boils down to unconditional love. A term easily used by many, a state achieved by as good as no one.
Mostly when you meet you're TF it's the start of a very bumpy ride. Quite the opposite from calm acceptance upon meeting.

Exactly!!!

[quipster]

Originally Posted by Angel44

I disagree. I experienced jealousy with my TF...part of the work I had to do in separation. Had we been perfect, there would have been no need to separate. There is no one size fits all in these relationships. And I am MOST DEFINITELY in a TF situation.

Perhaps it's a block you need to work through. Is your TF jealous too... are they mirroring you?

[Angel44]

Originally Posted by quipster

Perhaps it's a block you need to work through. Is your TF jealous too... are they mirroring you?

I already worked through that block...I had a fear of abandonment.