Sense the death of somones Dad

Originally Posted by froebellian

I feel I should not say anything, but wait and support afterwards...

There's your answer, Froe. It's the same as mine :)

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[Lynn]

Originally Posted by froebellian

What do you do when you sense someone close to you is going to lose a parent?

I feel I should not say anything, but wait and support afterwards..

I have a yearning to tell him spend some time with Dad, but don't feel thats right and he may question why I say that.

Anyone been in a similar predicament/position?

Thanks

Froe

Hello

Been there a few too many times now. What I have come to learn is that the "Event" can not be altered so one is almost I feel being prepared to be there for supports.

When I get the "vision" of it happening I do not know WHEN as there is not a date that comes with it so if I was to say and YEARS passed before it happened I would have caused stress maybe.

I would be there for supports and then after the event comes decide if ONE ever shares what one felt or say.....that too is a fine line. I NOW do not share what I have come to see as I know well I tried to change events at times and it still came to death....we have our TIME here and that is that I feel.


Lynn

Originally Posted by froebellian

What do you do when you sense someone close to you is going to lose a parent?

I feel I should not say anything, but wait and support afterwards..

I have a yearning to tell him spend some time with Dad, but don't feel thats right and he may question why I say that.

Anyone been in a similar predicament/position?

Thanks

Froe

this is a tricky problem.... would "you" want to know? I would....The fear may be well worth the precious time this person could have spent with his Dad........ Perhaps you could just say "I have this feeling that you should spend more time with your Dad" and you could always say that you were not sure why you had this feeling........good luck with your decision.....