Can I learn to speak to my deceased brother?

LibraTaurusEnergy23 · #1 08-10-2019, 12:34 AM

If you can see my other posts it will explain my story in more detail. What I’m trying to figure out is how I can reach connection with my twin brother that just passed 08/31/2019. His ex gf claims she has seen and heard him. Please advise me. I desperately miss my brother and need closure

John32241 · #2 08-10-2019, 07:30 AM

Hello,

The How TO I would like to suggest is enter a meditative state and just converse with him. Keep it simple like that and let it happen.

John

LibraTaurusEnergy23 · #3 08-10-2019, 12:36 PM

Thank you john32241. I’m going to purchase a white candle tonight and try to speak to him. Does it matter if it’s out loud or in my mind?

John32241 · #4 08-10-2019, 01:22 PM

No it does not matter. However for many doing it in the mind is easier. He will respond to you in Your Mind.

John

LibraTaurusEnergy23 · #5 08-10-2019, 01:55 PM

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Originally Posted by John32241

No it does not matter. However for many doing it in the mind is easier. He will respond to you in Your Mind.

John

Ok I will keep you posted

#6 09-10-2019, 09:42 AM

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Originally Posted by LibraTaurusEnergy23

If you can see my other posts it will explain my story in more detail. What I’m trying to figure out is how I can reach connection with my twin brother that just passed 08/31/2019. His ex gf claims she has seen and heard him. Please advise me. I desperately miss my brother and need closure

I am sorry for your loss.

I'd be very careful of this. It's possible that his ex-gf has been conjuring things up in her mind, it's one of the ways the mind can cope with grief. And yes, the mind is easily capable of such things. Being your twin I'm guessing that you had a deeper bond than most siblings so it's not difficult to think that perhaps your grief is as deep. This is not the way to go about it and from personal experience it can so easily lead to all kinds of mental health issues.

The best thing you can probably do for now is find some kind of closure for your loss and find a way to move on with your Life, if not all you're doing is simply making it worse for yourself. The other thing is that it's possible that you're hurting your sibling, they're moving on yet all you're doing is holding them back. In Spirit, that causes confusion and really the best thing is to allow them to move on.

LibraTaurusEnergy23 · #7 09-10-2019, 03:26 PM

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Originally Posted by Greenslade

I am sorry for your loss.

I'd be very careful of this. It's possible that his ex-gf has been conjuring things up in her mind, it's one of the ways the mind can cope with grief. And yes, the mind is easily capable of such things. Being your twin I'm guessing that you had a deeper bond than most siblings so it's not difficult to think that perhaps your grief is as deep. This is not the way to go about it and from personal experience it can so easily lead to all kinds of mental health issues.

The best thing you can probably do for now is find some kind of closure for your loss and find a way to move on with your Life, if not all you're doing is simply making it worse for yourself. The other thing is that it's possible that you're hurting your sibling, they're moving on yet all you're doing is holding them back. In Spirit, that causes confusion and really the best thing is to allow them to move on.

Wow this was very powerful message. It resonates with me. I do not want to hold him back I love him with every inch of me. I do want what’s best for me as well. I’m all over the place in my head right now. And the purpose of my life is weighing in. What does this all mean what is my purpose what was the purpose for my dear brothers death what kind of lesson was that? I’m trying. I am. the support and wisdom im receiving is opening my eyes. I can’t thank you enough for taking your time to write to me. Thank you a million times over my friend. I truly am thankful for you and I needed to hear your message.

God-Like · #8 10-10-2019, 07:39 AM

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Originally Posted by LibraTaurusEnergy23

If you can see my other posts it will explain my story in more detail. What I’m trying to figure out is how I can reach connection with my twin brother that just passed 08/31/2019. His ex gf claims she has seen and heard him. Please advise me. I desperately miss my brother and need closure

Hey :)

Soul mates, twins, twin flames all have a stronger sense of being apart of each other and as I well know of late how difficult it is to lose one of them. It really does feel that part of you has died and life feels pretty bleak and pointless for a while.

This is quite natural to feel and it takes as long as it takes to realign and adjust to the shock and the trauma that effects the mind-body in many ways.

Even though I have been working with spirit for years on end and I know of everlasting life it doesn't prepare you for the physical loss but it does help somewhat in regards to knowing they are still getting on with their lives elsewhere and can visit as often as they like it's just not the same as it used to be .

Depending on how emotional one is and how vulnerable one is will reflect in what transpires from the other side of life in regards to visitation from spirit.

I had dreams after my mum passed over where she wouldn't look me in the eye, because as soon as that happened it would of been too much for me to bear .

Gradually the dreams changed where I could stand my own and look her in the eye and not breakdown, so what I am saying to you is there is a gradual process involved in regards to all of this and it depends on the individuals at hand from both sides of the veil.

Take it easy and take caution like G.S. has said because where there is strong emotion there is a build up of energy and where there is a build up of energy there is an attraction to that from above and from below ..

What I found helped is to continue to speak to my mum as if she was still here and I would speak to her about all the things that I used to speak to her about when she was of the earth .. What is also extremely beneficial to both is to be happy for them no matter how much it hurts to be so ..

The thing is with grief it normally effects those hardest who are left behind so to speak, it's like one is left to deal with life on their own while the other is dancing the night away in another dimension lol, so we have to be honest with ourselves and try and be happy for their new lease of life experience .. easier said than done I know, but unconditional love isn't about the lack and the loss one feels, it is about loving them and setting them free ..

In this true exchange of selflessness actually helps oneself in the process and it's not like letting a bird out of a cage never to return, in fact it's quite the opposite.

x daz x

Miss Hepburn · #9 10-10-2019, 08:04 AM

Wonderful posts.
I wanted to add...and it could take awhile to 'hear' from him...weeks.
He's on a wonderful adventure!
And then one day 'something' happens.
Keep giving him your love and well wishes.

I remember I heard somewhere it is in the 'just drifting off to sleep, and esp, just waking
that it is the easiest for them to get through, before your mind engages.'
That is, since many people don't sit in silence.

peteyzen · #10 10-10-2019, 11:32 AM

I Have no definite solution to your situation, I just wanted to offer my condolences and to wish you and your family all the best and suggest one option.
Its a long shot, but in the healing threads there is a thread called `the healing hand`, if you go to it and go to the very first post and follow the instructions there, ask for help and also for what you would like , it might oblige.

kind regards
Pete