Who is projecting what

[hallow]

Is it possible we live in a mirrored world? If you think about it, at times you are your own hardest person to deal with. For example, my wife and her dad don't get along. Because there so much alike. I share the same relationship with my mom because as much as I hate to admit, we're alike. My wife and I get along great, we have differences, I am a relaxed person, she's always kind of nervous. Our differences feed off each other in a positive way. Like she only eats white meat chicken, and I prefer dark meat chicken. Differences work out sometimes

[doordie]

[quote=T.L.M.][left][color="DarkGreen"]july14 - I understand exactly what you are saying. as I would have walked away from this situation already.

doordie -
Also, having someone deny or affirm the connection does not mean it is/isn't happening(fact/fiction).

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I think telepathy could be one-sided, actually. We know very little as of today as far as sensing something goes. A while back my cousin had a series of dreams about me, right when I was going through some stuff. Did she telepathically feel my emotions from across the ocean? Maybe. Does it mean we are Twin Flames? No. She is my cousin, same gender as me and I am not even slightly attracted to her. That being said, connection, by definition is always mutual. Telepathy might be just that-sensing somebody's emotions/thoughts. Not necessarily goes both ways though.

[M.Tesla]

July14, I appreciate the thought that it will get better you shared. That there may be a time when it's not so confusing.

I feel so much all at once. It's really frustrating having all this love and have all of my usual outlets not be enough, while there's only one person in this life who can stop this craziness. If I could just tell her I love her again...feel the presence of her soul again... I know I would be ok... however that's not happening. Do you have any ideas for coping with this?
I've never felt so much simultaneous sadness and elation and love all at the same time before. . :(

[Emm]

My experience too happened some years ago and have moved on with a little more clarity of the situation. The trouble comes when we are only perceiving from our limited physical perspective... there is so much more to our whole soul self if you like, that after bumping into someone of a similar energetics to our own, other "senses" bleeds through into physical reality that the physical brain or ego cannot make, or is trying to make sense of.

The physical sensory self has a kind of closed perception of reality...it can deal with all things it considers "normal", all things that fall into the realms of our physics is this NORMAL bubble. However, when something like this 'twin flame' phenomena happens its like we are suddenly catapulted into a wider reality where the egoic self is playing catchup.

He was like a doorway in which I stepped into another realm of reality, literally. This sense was mainly active only when he was close by, things as seeing, feeling, hearing and sensing stuff that others would consider just fanciful imagination but I knew it was far far more than that. I never really spoke about it with anyone but instead it had piqued a curiosity to find out more of what was happening to me....and this is most important...it was happening to ME because I was open to it, no one else could see what I saw or heard...it was my personal perception and experience. Others seemed to feel better when we were around together but that was it.

I often thought he may have had similar experiences but I never asked. However, if he didn't sense the same it wouldn't have mattered...just because no one else can sense what you do doesn't make it any less real...you just have to accept that this experience is personal and forget the idea of Twin Flames. The love is real, it is a connection, a bond you have with another that goes beyond the physical, but it doesn't follow necessarily that they will perceive it while stuck in and from their own physical standpoint. It may have only been something you planned for to help you wake up to your greater reality.

In my circumstances, I had two years of his company, and knew of the limited time frame so could adjust when it was time to say goodbye. We are still in contact every now and then for a quick catchup but since he's no longer in my vicinity all the phenomena has ceased. However, I now know there is more to us than just physical beings because I experienced it so am working on myself to live more fully and life is much more exciting when you know there is more to explore.

So my advice is, let go of the Twin Flame idea, see it as an opportunity of self growth and drop the notion that they must have felt the same. With that kind of mentality all you'll feel is a victim of failed relationship on a grander scale. Instead, ask the bigger questions and watch how your life unfolds for the better.