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Originally Posted by Catalin
don't get geared up in his frequency, in his behavioural vibration.Don't judge.Judgement will get you geared into his reality.The opposite of judgement is unconditional love, and it will be felt by him as an invitation to match your vibration.By vibration i mean state of being.You can do this by loving him unconditionally.Actually that is why he is into you. Explicitly because you showed appreciation and cared, and been nice to him.Hi is triyng to have a confirmation from somebody, in this case you, that no matter how negative his behaviour is, he will still be loved.Like a child that has been told by his mother that he does not deserve love because he made some mistakes.You are seen as his mother, the loving mother he might not have had so he is behaving as to test that you will accept him to be your child, so to speak.So as an adult he might be compensating, unconsciously for the experiences he once had, to find a realignemnt with his natural self, altough that realignement is made using tools that are of a low vibration, because that is how he learned to do it, not seeing the possibility for accepting himself and loving himself. So he is bugging you in dreams, work ,telepathic messages etc, because you allow him to.If you , while receiving these informational behaviours from him, in dreams, during day, if you would would receive ANYTHING that comes from him with UNCONDITIONAL LOVE, APPRECIATION AND GRATITUDE, that will disconnect you from the frequency, vibration that his state of being creates for himself and intends to recreate in you - because misery loves company.It will disconnect you from his frequency, because the frequency of unconditional love will make you invisible to the vibrations he is inviting you to share with him.So, in this context you can see yourself as a counselour for him, empowered .Define yourself as a counselor and you will feel empowered in these encounters.Define yourself as out of control of the situation and you will accepting his invitation to feel disempowered about yourself, as the child inside him feels about himself.Everytime he appears in dreams, or in your visions during the day, treat him with the love that you would treat a hurting child wanting to cry his tears, but not allowed by the "grown" rational man.That way you will be synchronized with the frequency of unconditional love, by empowering yourself, not by fearing the apparent lack o control he is inviting you to believe about the situation.Actually you should be in gratitude by the experience, because YOU attracted him.You attracted him so that YOU (your higher self) will prove to yourself that you can help other people, and that you may actually develop a skil, a passion, maybe create workshops in this ideea.He was sent in your experience by your higher self to point out a new direction in which you might be a great person - that of personal development and helping others.You are open as a sensitive empath, otherwise he could not connect to you that easy.He is also a senstive empath, but does not have the tools to guide himself into using his skills with integrity.The most essential tool is self love and acceptance.Be an inviting example for him through your unconditonal love , and you will actually become enthusiastic, hungry for more of these interractions as you will see how easy it is to be an alchemist turning the led in people into gold, you will enrich yourself, your heart, your soul.So, think of appreciation, gratitude, love for the child within you everytime you feel a thought coming from "outside", so that tought can be dissolved and reintegrated into the sender from the perspective of unconditional love you vibrate as an example, invinting him to accept himself, inviting him to unconditional love from him to himself, without having the feeling that he has to look for confirmations that no matter how unacceptable his actions are , he will be loved.He is actually recreating a situation in where he was once rejected.So show or tell him (creating a visualization in your mind of love as an answer to his invitations, literally seea wellcoming heart, beating with love for the led to transformed in gold, for negative to become positive, integrated, visualize him loving himself, literally)it is allright to have love for himself , by the example of you having love for yourself in these meetings, not fear for yourself, as he has , deep inside his inner child.Invite him to let it out.Invite him to cry it out.And pretty soon what might happen is that if he still won't allow that inner child to cry out and align himself to your frequency, is that he will actually begin to be scared by you.he will literally be afraid of making contact with yourself EVER AGAIN.That is because you will constantly remind him about the hurt inside him that he is not willing to accept as an experience he cen learn from.That hurt will be visible for him once you create in yourself, once you shine the light of unconfitional love in your visualizations, dream encounters on the hurting he has.And not accepting it, keeping it there will make him want to become more intense in scaring other people by serving the illusion that they are powerless in front of his "great power" to reinforce the ideea that he is in control, while the other obviously feels insecure.In fact that is the sign that he is feeling weak and insecure inside, as an unaccepted child bugging others to accept him.The fact that he exhibits the ideea that he has a certain "power" through lucid dreaming in the astral realm, or through tel-empathy tells you that he is using illusions to protect internal insecurities . You can play it as a game,just like he sees it, by becoming a volunteer of unconditional love expressed towards him,and in this way creating it your game.Play the game as childrens would, not as grown ups do.With love for oneanother.Show him this game.Invite him to play the game as the child that he craves to let out.BE CREATIVE! YOU HAVE THOUSANDS OF PERSPECTIVE AT HAND,DONT GET STUCK IN THE ILLUSION OF ONE PERSPECTIVE OFFERED BY SOMEONE ELSE! BE A CHILD!
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