Forgiveness

[Deepsoul]

I forgive everyone in my life and I love myself...

[naturesflow]

Yay, sounds good to me!

Be excellent to each other.

And party on!! dudes.

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[Shaunc]

Forgiveness is a wonderful attribute. Admittedly whenever I've practised it, it's been for selfish reasons. We don't forgive to help the other person but do it for ourselves. Its far easier to forgive than to carry around hatred, resentment & ill will.

[Jom]

Let go of anger and feel the freedom of no need to take sides as good or bad, right or wrong, this or that. Unity consciousness frees us from attachment to having to take more, but still give, back, to the beginning... breathe in... oneness.

Deepsoul your posts are quite an effort to keep up with, if they are to be seen as a reflection of you. One post you claim to be abused for 45 years, domestic violence by partner/husband. Another post you claim to have met the love of your life very young and have been living happily ever after! Do you by any chance share your account with a few different people? I mean, apart from your husband, i think he introduced himself as, who helps out with acupuncture advice on your behalf.

Is things like these that you are trying to love yourself for and forgive others for believing and accepting you as you are....coz deep in your heart you know they are doing wrong by doing so?

Obviously what others do is on them...or you keen on taking on the burden of every ones sins and forgiving them instead? Take care my dear, if thats the case, as the burden of their karma will be enforced upon you too by the same rule. It would be difficult task though, to make sure they dont rcontinue with their deeds which are you are taking responsibility for. You do indeed need a lot of self love in that case. Unless you are forgiving yourself and your role in others causing you grief.

I dont have to apologise here if i have hurt you here, i guess, although, i havent, as you are forgiving anyway. Easy...i can carry on forever. Thanks for the permission. And thanks for loving me so very much..a total stranger. Could you please, please take on a few more of my sins too...i cant be bothered to take responsibility for them. Thanks mate.

[naturesflow]

Originally Posted by lifensoul

Deepsoul your posts are quite an effort to keep up with, if they are to be seen as a reflection of you. One post you claim to be abused for 45 years, domestic violence. Another post you claim to have met the love of your life very young and have been living happily ever after! Do you by any chance share your account with a few different people?

Is things like these that you are trying to love yourself for and forgive others for believing and accepting you as you are....coz deep in your heart you know they are doing wrong by doing so?

Your good to notice all this. I wouldn't have noticed all that, I guess you did for reason though, wasn't for me to view till now..

Maybe forgiveness is the start for him in this regard.

[genesis_child]

Forgiveness is really a good thing for a person in dealing with situations or people. I know personally it took me a while to forgive some people in my past under certain circumstances. I also had to forgive myself, which was harder though in the end I did start. I know with me forgiveness took away a negative side of myself.

Forgiveness happens or it doesn't, both is okay. No way to force it.

Originally Posted by luntrusreality

Forgiveness happens or it doesn't, both is okay. No way to force it.

Absolutely. Do what's necessary. Forgiving oneself for the misdeeds of others is nice Mills and Boon spirituality but doesn't sit well with everyone.

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