won't answer about love life?

[kindheart]

Hey there guys

I decided to use my pendulum again today but altered the string to make it a bit longer (I had a hard time making out movements since they were sometimes a bit small) and it's not much better. Before I started I asked to see what meant yes (turns out to be a circle), no (back and forth), I don't know (no movement) and I don't want to answer (no movement). I wasn't sure if I don't know and I don't want to answer really were no movements, so when I saw it wasn't moving, for both, I asked "does no movement mean I don't know? (or I don't want to answer?)" and both times it said yes.

Now this time, before asking questions about my future love life, I asked if it was ok to ask about my future love life. Unfortunately, it told me no

I then asked "is it because there are more than one potential future husbands for me?" It said yes.

I then asked if a reason why they (I ask my angels and guides to connect with me through the pendulum) didn't want to answer was that I should be able, myself, to identify who is good for me and not? It told me no.

Asked again: so it's because there is more than one potential husband for me that you don't want to answer? again, consistently, it said yes.

Now, me being the stubborn person that I am, I asked if I could please just ask if (new person I've got a crush on at the moment) would be a good boyfriend for me. Unfortunately, my guides must also be stubborn lol, the pendulum said no

I hate not knowing, and not being allowed to ask! But it's also interesting in a way hehe.

Use Tarot - no there are no 'silence' cards.

[kindheart]

but if I "wasn't supposed" to ask with the pendulum, how would it be ok to ask with tarot instead?

I've run into similar blocks myself - they're always my own self-doubt interfering with the process.

Your answers don't make a lot of sense to me. One other cause is that sometimes you're asking questions which don't have a neat yes/no answer. Tarot helps both problems.

[kindheart]

I actually thought they made perfect sense... I get a lot of inconsistancies with tarot, personally. Not with my pendulum

Inconsistancies with tarot can reflect changing states of mind and energies but also tend to occur when the energy of a situation is not fully developed. Tarot reflects what is going on at this exact momment in time and what may result due to that...when the energy isn't fully developed you tend to only get a small piece of the picture not the whole thing.

It makes no sense to me that guides/angels would refuse to answer whether a potential partner would make a good one.

I wrote a short but full explanation of divination here.

Tarot inconsistencies would come from a lack of consistently expecting a clear answer to a specific question. ;)