Spiritual Forums

Home


Donate!


Articles


CHAT!


Shop


 
Welcome to Spiritual Forums!.

We created this community for people from all backgrounds to discuss Spiritual, Paranormal, Metaphysical, Philosophical, Supernatural, and Esoteric subjects. From Astral Projection to Zen, all topics are welcome. We hope you enjoy your visits.

You are currently viewing our boards as a guest, which gives you limited access to most discussions and articles. By joining our free community you will be able to post messages, communicate privately with other members (PM), respond to polls, upload your own photos, and gain access to our Chat Rooms, Registration is fast, simple, and free, so please, join our community today! !

If you have any problems with the registration process or your account login, check our FAQs before contacting support. Please read our forum rules, since they are enforced by our volunteer staff. This will help you avoid any infractions and issues.

Go Back   Spiritual Forums > Spirituality & Beliefs > Soulmates & Twin Flames

Reply
 
Thread Tools Display Modes
  #1  
Old 23-03-2018, 06:34 PM
t lady t lady is offline
Newbie ;)
Join Date: Mar 2018
Posts: 6
 
lost

really don t know anymore .....feel nothing empty after surrender normal?
Reply With Quote
  #2  
Old 23-03-2018, 08:25 PM
traceyacey12 traceyacey12 is offline
Experiencer
Join Date: Nov 2017
Posts: 463
 
I can relate, yes. Don't know where it stems from but I'm thinking that after ascension this happens. Someone correct me if I'm wrong. I also don't have the answers to this.
Reply With Quote
  #3  
Old 24-03-2018, 12:26 AM
FairyCrystal FairyCrystal is offline
Master
Join Date: Jan 2014
Posts: 3,361
  FairyCrystal's Avatar
Maybe you are suppressing and not surrendering. There's a thin line...
I thought for a while I was surrendering, but I wasn't. I was blocking it. Suppressing it. I realized when I got physical problems due to stress (from suppressing it).
I'm now doing quite well at surrendering, since a week. It feels different. Relief. No stress. It's truly accepting that it's okay the way it is.
The feeling 'nothing' is what you get when you are suppressing. Not healthy. It means you are closing yourself off, not just from them / the connection, but from everything.
You have to allow the connection to be there, but not want it anymore, not need it anymore. Not need to have them in your life, not need to be in touch with them, yet be okay with there being a connection. Trusting that if it is meant to be, it will be.
I also thought I was surrendering for weeks, but my body and well-being made clear I wasn't. And when you are more detached and closer to surrendering, you will feel different. You will feel. But the connection or your TF just isn't all that important anymore.
I couldn't even be bothered to reply to his last message, while until a week ago I'd get all nervous and happy at the same time whenever I heard from him. Constantly hoping I'd hear from him etc etc.
Then when I got that last message, some 3-4 days after I'd send a message to him, I read it and shrugged. Didn't feel that pull, that urge, anymore. The bond is still there, but the pressure's gone.
I hope it is lasting, cos I was getting seriously fed up -and desperate at times- about not being able to let go.

BEst thing I did that helped... stop reading so much about it, stop doing/watching readings online about it or drawing cards on it yourself and stop reading and posting in here. When you do all that, you keep it active in your system because you're busy with it 24/7.
I don't often come here anymore. Done me a world of good. Get your mind of all that TF talk and live your life. Focus on other things.
It's like flicking a switch. I didn't want it anymore because my health was suffering. I started to clench my teeth at night for weeks on end. Resulted in 2 root canals and a E650 dentist bill.
My tinnitus got out of control, cramped shoulders, back & neck problems because of thinking and stressing over this TF breakup and chit. I was fed up with it.
Reply With Quote
Reply


Thread Tools
Display Modes

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

vB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off
Forum Jump


All times are GMT. The time now is 01:53 PM.


Powered by vBulletin
Copyright ©2000 - 2018, Jelsoft Enterprises Ltd.
(c) Spiritual Forums