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Old 04-11-2019, 12:07 PM
Shivani Devi Shivani Devi is offline
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Fact that you hold a grudge says enough. Learn to deal with emotions properly then you don't have this problem and you'll feel better.
Life is about living positively and from love, not anger and hate.

Everything ties in with LoA which in this case means you will attract negative people and situations as that's what you exude.

Even your name. Why call yourself "dead"??
Please forgive my interruption...

You can learn a lot from forum user-names and quite a few years ago, I was a member of the online community known as 4Chan as part of a group of online gamers and part-time hackers.

During that time, I learned many stupid, trivial things like "lolspeak" and "leetspeak" and how to successfully "Rickroll" people...call it "Troll School" and I was an ace student.

The user name of the OP..

"1337" is the numerical way of writing "LEET" which is troll for "ELITE".
And "d00d" or "dOOd" is troll leetspeak for DUDE (not dead).

Put them both together and you get "ELITE DUDE" which says "I am better than you are".

I knew my study of the troll language would pay off somewhere down the line..and for everything else:

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=dQw4w9WgXcQ
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Old 04-11-2019, 02:11 PM
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I have noticed that whenever I have a grudge against someone, to the point where I even consider physical confrontation with the person, just cursing them in my anger gives me quite a lot of relief. I think this ties in with the law of attraction principle, that energy/emotion leads to manifestation.

Any views or comments on that?
The transmutation you describe is still better than physical violence which would be a total failure of all other preferable means. And yet cursing others is no different than cursing yourself. It is effectively the same thing energetically, and it will not ultimately provide relief (even if mentally/conceptually the shift you describe appears to solve the problem - it doesn't). Because you still need to address the anger which comes from frustration. But what causes that? Perhaps some expectation not met.

The best solution is invoke God, ask for intercession, illumination, for God to solve the problem. Learn detachment. This is already higher consciousness in intention and helps develop more contact with higher self vs perpetuating lower self. Inner development, self-examination, transformation. iow forget about the mere mechanics of personal conflict - eliminate that altogether by transforming yourself. When you do this you will see that "grudge" and its very genesis within you is superseded and circumvented by better understanding, intention and action thus eliminating the frustration - but importantly its root cause.

God is the only solution to all problems. And if there is an ancient residual resistance to old definitions of God, then redefine for the present (that is what spirituality is) in and through your life. This is the one of the biggest problems now, and biggest opportunities.


~ J
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Old 04-11-2019, 02:40 PM
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Actually no. Before when I did that I always felt some amount of shame afterward. Now I just don't take things personally and it's a far easier way to live, experiencing life directly and without all the charged emotional meanings and judgements attached.
Agree, been there done that to. It's about the experience and the feeling which was pointed to. It is also about communication to imo.
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Old 04-11-2019, 02:45 PM
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Note that there is no such thing as justice. God wants to heal everything.
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Old 04-11-2019, 02:50 PM
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Wouldn't learning to control your anger be more beneficial...
Yes, and this may fall under the category of learning.
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Old 04-11-2019, 03:06 PM
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Originally Posted by 1337_d00d
I have noticed that whenever I have a grudge against someone ....
just cursing them in my anger gives me quite a lot of relief.
Any views or comments on that?
Sure, anything, non-violent, to relieve you of your anger - scream into a pillow!!
Hit a tennis racket on a pillow, like the the therapists have you do in their sessions.
BUT - don't curse them.

Scream about how angry you are...example:
"I get so mad when you do 'this'. I wanna just slap you...."+ more.
Then, say -"Lord, you know I don't really mean it. It's me I have to deal with. Why does this bother me so much? Any help?"

Check yourself and see how better you feel letting that out of you, yay.
It's like a poison inside...and it can spread to the next guy that really doesn't deserve your anger.

Progress from emotional triggers, old psychological traumas and spiritual growth, after that will be easier...
once the anger is dissipated.



Shivani:
''I knew my study of the troll language would pay off somewhere down the line....'' VERY funny!
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Through delusion you are perceiving yourself as a bundle of flesh and bones...Meditate unceasingly,
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Old 04-11-2019, 03:17 PM
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Whatever floats your boat, leet dude*. But if you cursed me I'd fall back on my experience as a sorceress and turn you into a human being....although...hmm, I probably haven't enough magical power to do that. It would make huge demands of the cosmos.


*credits to Shivani Devi.
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Old 04-11-2019, 03:28 PM
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Whatever floats your boat, leet dude*. But if you cursed me I'd fall back on my experience as a sorceress and turn you into a human being....although...hmm, I probably haven't enough magical power to do that. It would make huge demands of the cosmos.
Yes, as was the intention to. Couldn't this also be seen as a test for each individual. I have always thought this is the reason we don't have magical power to choose from. It also invokes karma as pointed out.
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Old 04-11-2019, 04:08 PM
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Yes, as was the intention to. Couldn't this also be seen as a test for each individual. I have always thought this is the reason we don't have magical power to choose from. It also invokes karma as pointed out.
KARma???
He just needs to get calmer. That would be a start.

pardon my humour!
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Old 04-11-2019, 08:41 PM
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The transmutation you describe is still better than physical violence which would be a total failure of all other preferable means. And yet cursing others is no different than cursing yourself. It is effectively the same thing energetically, and it will not ultimately provide relief (even if mentally/conceptually the shift you describe appears to solve the problem - it doesn't). Because you still need to address the anger which comes from frustration. But what causes that? Perhaps some expectation not met.

The best solution is invoke God, ask for intercession, illumination, for God to solve the problem. Learn detachment. This is already higher consciousness in intention and helps develop more contact with higher self vs perpetuating lower self. Inner development, self-examination, transformation. iow forget about the mere mechanics of personal conflict - eliminate that altogether by transforming yourself. When you do this you will see that "grudge" and its very genesis within you is superseded and circumvented by better understanding, intention and action thus eliminating the frustration - but importantly its root cause.

God is the only solution to all problems. And if there is an ancient residual resistance to old definitions of God, then redefine for the present (that is what spirituality is) in and through your life. This is the one of the biggest problems now, and biggest opportunities.


~ J

Since in my experience you don't get anything from God without faith, this applies to justice as well. So I could just "pray" to God, but cursing them feels more effective and proper. I don't really see the difference. So "praying" and "manifesting" becomes the same thing, but it will not be effective if not focused with the right emotion.

In my case, people from different backgrounds failed me both as a customer and a human being. Thus I've cursed them to lose their jobs, and they can find other occupations where their lack of professionalism will not be of inconvenience to the people they are supposed to serve.
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