Home
Donate!
Articles
CHAT!
Shop
|
Welcome to Spiritual Forums!.
We created this community for people from all backgrounds to discuss Spiritual, Paranormal, Metaphysical, Philosophical, Supernatural, and Esoteric subjects. From Astral Projection to Zen, all topics are welcome. We hope you enjoy your visits.
You are currently viewing our boards as a guest, which gives you limited access to most discussions and articles. By joining our free community you will be able to post messages, communicate privately with other members (PM), respond to polls, upload your own photos, and gain access to our Chat Rooms, Registration is fast, simple, and free, so please, join our community today! !
If you have any problems with the registration process or your account login, check our FAQs before contacting support. Please read our forum rules, since they are enforced by our volunteer staff. This will help you avoid any infractions and issues.
|
14-08-2019, 11:53 AM
|
|
Ahhhh.... the sweet scent of romance...!
Do as people have suggested: message her but expect nothing. Don't risk building up hopes. Treat the attire thing as coincidence. Crushes are lovely but dangerous, the tendency to come up with all kinds of hopes and expectations that are never satisfied entirely except on the rarest of occasions.
.
|
15-08-2019, 01:28 AM
|
Seeker
Join Date: Jul 2017
Posts: 27
|
|
|
|
Quote:
Originally Posted by Lorelyen
Ahhhh.... the sweet scent of romance...!
Do as people have suggested: message her but expect nothing. Don't risk building up hopes. Treat the attire thing as coincidence. Crushes are lovely but dangerous, the tendency to come up with all kinds of hopes and expectations that are never satisfied entirely except on the rarest of occasions.
.
|
So it doesn’t mean anything that she wore the colors that I would used to wear back in high school and she just wear those colors without even thinking about me lol But there’s another picture of her wearing a purple jacket and a black sweat shirt lol so I guess she just likes those’s color haha
|
15-08-2019, 09:20 AM
|
|
Quote:
Originally Posted by Alexander98765432
So it doesn’t mean anything that she wore the colors that I would used to wear back in high school and she just wear those colors without even thinking about me lol But there’s another picture of her wearing a purple jacket and a black sweat shirt lol so I guess she just likes those’s color haha
|
I can't and don't know. Do you know? Really? Seems that you're basing it on hopes here.
So...for the preservation of your feelings and hedging against disappointment I suggested treating it as coincidence.
The only way you'll find out if anything can come of this is to make contact. See what gives.
|
15-08-2019, 11:09 AM
|
Master
Join Date: Jun 2013
Location: Salford, UK
Posts: 3,239
|
|
|
|
|
Quote:
Originally Posted by Alexander98765432
So it doesn’t mean anything that she wore the colors that I would used to wear back in high school and she just wear those colors without even thinking about me lol But there’s another picture of her wearing a purple jacket and a black sweat shirt lol so I guess she just likes those’s color haha
|
Could just be that, yeah. Why did you wear those colours back in high school, were you wearing them because someone you liked wore them or did you just like the colours?
__________________
What is your experience right now, in this moment?
|
15-08-2019, 07:58 PM
|
Seeker
Join Date: Jul 2017
Posts: 27
|
|
|
|
Quote:
Originally Posted by A human Being
Could just be that, yeah. Why did you wear those colours back in high school, were you wearing them because someone you liked wore them or did you just like the colours?
|
I just liked the color
|
16-08-2019, 11:08 AM
|
Master
Join Date: Jun 2013
Location: Salford, UK
Posts: 3,239
|
|
|
|
|
Quote:
Originally Posted by Alexander98765432
I just liked the color
|
Maybe she just likes the colours too, as you said. Doesn't necessarily mean you shouldn't reconnect with her, though, if it feels like the right thing to do then I say go for it
__________________
What is your experience right now, in this moment?
|
26-08-2019, 12:45 PM
|
Seeker
Join Date: Jul 2019
Posts: 28
|
|
|
|
Hanging onto small things like that is awesome
|
02-09-2019, 03:15 PM
|
Knower
Join Date: Sep 2019
Posts: 107
|
|
|
|
Even if the wearing of colors is a random coincidence, why not contact her? There is no reason not to say hi to friends again after time has passed. That is the point of FB and others. Not to look for people who have a cosmic reason for wearing purple pants, but for keeping in touch with people we have lost contact in this world, bringing people together. Just say Hi!. Everyone is happy to hear from an old friend
|
Thread Tools |
|
Display Modes |
Linear Mode
|
Posting Rules
|
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts
HTML code is Off
|
|
|
All times are GMT. The time now is 10:41 PM.
|