Born In The Wrong Generation

[RedEmbers]

Hmmm...

I used to feel like I belonged in a very distant universe lol...a wandering nomad or something, It felt like people in society overcomplicated everything.

When I look at the deeper lessons on my generation though (gen Y), i ressonate strongly with the "pluto in scorpio - lost generation" themes (1983 -1995).

When I was in my mid - late twenties, I preferred younger people, friends and if I wasn't already coupled at the time, dating those in their early 20's, same generation but younger then me.

I think I liked how the cynacisim had not reached them yet I wasn't really interested in having kids either. I was also not ready to be an adult yet either, adulting just looked like insanity to me haha.

Now I wonder when I was fooled into ever becomming one at all lol.

I reckon you could be onto something when you mention the kids factor too - if you are not having a bunch of kids and people your age are, I feel like it would be quite natural to gravitate to a different crowd and scence.

Originally Posted by IndigoDoll90

I enjoy young children and hope to have a child of my own someday soon, but I can also see how they can be annoying. I'm still not entirely sure why I get along better with those in their early 20s instead of people my own age. Lately I've been really feeling like I belong in the future and that maybe that's why I get along with the younger generation better. Also not sure this has anything to do with getting along better with younger people but I believe I have the ability to foresee the future and have always seemed to be a forward thinking and creative person so maybe that could be why.

Oh let me tell you, if you have a child of your own , it will be the most wonderful experience of your life. You will have never felt love like it.

[IndigoDoll90]

That is the reason I would really like to have a child someday is to feel that love especially since I feel I missed out on love and affection as a teenager because sex ed scared me to the point I wanted no love and affection as a teen.

[girlsearching]

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[girlsearching]

Wow this is Ironic. I'm 26 and I seem to always befriend older women. I have one girlfriend whom is a councillor on our city's board committee and she is also a self published author. She and I met when she had a creative writing workshop class at the public library. My second girlfriend is the manager at the Library's cafe located inside of it. We casually became friends cause of how frequent I would visit.

I don't have friends in my peer group or any Gen Z 2000's born kids .

Originally Posted by IndigoDoll90

That is the reason I would really like to have a child someday is to feel that love especially since I feel I missed out on love and affection as a teenager because sex ed scared me to the point I wanted no love and affection as a teen.

When the time is right for you, within a relationship you are comfortable with and a child is created..you will experience love beyond love. I myself missed out on love from my parents. When my precious babies were born I knew that they would never go a single second without feeling love from their mamma. The bond we have is strong. I think it's because we have so much love to give, when in areas of our lives we were maybe deprived. The joy of holding my firstborn, and the love is equal to nothing I have ever experienced before.