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05-09-2017, 05:31 AM
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Originally Posted by LoveFeathers
Now I'm confused as to if this person is my twin flame or soulmate. I guess I thought it was the same thing.
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I was skeptical when I first heard of the term. I had to do some research to find the answers. As they say "seek and you shall find".
Edgar Cayce was married to a soulmate (we have many). His stenographer was his twin flame. They both had karma to work out, so it was not meant for them to be together in that life. His own readings came out and explained that if cayce hadn't met his soulmate (Gladys) they both would have died earlier in life.
How I know my twin is my twin? Mirroring..same childhood traumas and upbringing, though at different places and of a different socio-economic backgrounds. We both started our early education in private schools, mine was free due to something my mother conjured up, my twin's family had a bit more money, at the same age we were both thrust into the public school system in bad neighborhoods unbeknownst to us. My family, because of financial reasons, his because of other reasons, but we are 20 years apart. We both also had our biggest emotional trauma at exactly the same age, accept mine was 20 years later. We have a birth defect on the same spinal vertebrae that we were born with. We like the same things, have similar personalities, tastes and thought processes. Where we do defer we mirror, traits I wish I had he has, traits he would have liked to have I have. We can read each other's thoughts and emotions. When we met and had a physical relationship, we both had dreams and visions. My abilities had been dormant for some time. I guess this is kunadini rising when things wake back up. A voice told me as I was waking up one morning "you were together before". I didn't understand why the strange wording, why not say "he's from a past life". Now I understand...why it was said in exactly that way "together" as in we were one.
Before we met I had a mental obsession with his industry that he worked in and he had a mental obsession with mine. To me it had nothing to do with love, just an industry I would have liked to be in and a fascination that I could not understand, especially having to do with the safety aspect of it. it turned out.. he was working on getting a degree in the exactly safety aspect of his industry. He was also looking at my industry and wanted to be in it and had already started the process for a possible change. We both travelled around the country a lot and had been crossing paths consistently unbeknownst to us since the times we were both ending our karmic relationships which was around the same time. When we met we both marveled on how we had both met the perfect person that we didn't think existed, that would have been brought about only if our own mind had conjured it up. We both had serious commitment issues and had no intention of being committed to anyone after our karmic relationships and were sure that it would not happen again.
Where our relationship had come into fruition was in a place that neither one of us frequented very often but where my own parents had fallen in love and actually conceived me ( he did not know that when he invited me there for a vacation) and it is not a popular or well known place.
This geographic location was one I had always wanted to live in, as he did too. I even wrote a story about it when I was in grade school, "if I had the ability to fly and could go anywhere, I would fly to '_this geographic location __"
But most importantly I knew he was my twin looking back on it when I realized that we both brought to surface every deep seated and dormant trauma that we had both tried to cover up with layers of armor and ego protection.
So there. That is a twin flame relationship ,(for me anyway,). From my understanding that is the typical. My karmic relationship was with a soulmate. It was hard, but a very deep and instant connection but also a foreboding feeling from the beginning there was a lot of dysfunction on both sides but it was different than the TF connection. I had karma with that connection from something I did in a past life that I needed to sort out.
Now this new soulmate I met we have lifetimes together, many lifetimes...it's a better vibe, there is no karmic debt or anything, it's just an easy flowy warm type of feeling. There's even memories of the lives for both of us.
So like I said soulmates are easier but we do have free will, but is using your free will to go against a plan for twin reunion mocking the divine plan? This is something I ponder.
I think I read somewhere that the purpose of relationships is to either generate more love, work out karma or to learn something.
I don't know what the purpose of a twin flame relationship is when I know that both twins can incarnate at the same time but are still not meant to be together.
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05-09-2017, 10:29 AM
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Join Date: Aug 2016
Posts: 292
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Originally Posted by Inika
Hope you don't mind. I'm going to use this post since it's fresh too, as a classic 'case and point' of the twin flame drama that seems constant. Yes, I know, i know, we're all at different stages and places and areas of this journey. But this....this is what is always gone on about here and why it attracts the Lorelyn's and the Bailies (sorry guy's, nothing on ether of you personally, you're both cool peeps in my book) that get wind of this being your ever love sick person that moans because it's just not going their way and how they want it and if it's a twin flame then I expect it to be happening in real life like this and if it's not then go away! (insert picture of a child having a tantrum here)
You know why you 'CANT' get this person out of your personal orbit space?
BECAUSE YOU LOVE THEM!
Why do you struggle with frustration?
BECAUSE YOU'RE TRYING TO DENY YOUR LOVE BECAUSE IT SHOULD GO THE WAY YOU THINK IT SHOULD GO.
most situations like this, when it's not working how we'd like it to. We just, walk off. No sweat. But this situation has a foundation of unconditional love and no matter how frustrating you, they or the situation is. Your love is way more stronger than your ego's wants and expectations. You'll fight and struggle against yourself. When you surrender to accepting - whew, ok, I love no matter what is going on. Then just allow. Turn and look at your life, what do you like to do? Music? Shop? Hobbies? Friends? Carry on and know you love, deeply, unconditionally no matter what you can and cant control. You still love when all has been said and done.
That energy you want removed? Is your energy. It's tired, drained from fighting against the self. You want it gone. It will release it's strong hold when you stop resisting and allow everything to be as it is without tantrums of how it's not going the way you want it. 'get out of my dreams, and into my life' or go the heck away and leave me alone! Oh the demands! Focus on what brings joy :) shift the vbration of frustration to joy! it may help.
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Really REALLY SPOT ON Inika!
This describes pretty accurately to a T what I am currently experiencing.
My twin just keeps poking around, trying to get through my walls that I've put up specifically to block her out.
Finally, this weekend, I told her that I'm done resisting. The universe clearly wants us to communicate and be in each other's lives at this time and the head space I've devoted to crying foul over why it's so unfair that we are physically not together will be put to better use.
How I will do it.. I don't know. I don't want to get into another texting relationship with her. But I will start with not resisting this force which right now my twin is feeling more than I am.
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08-09-2017, 07:38 PM
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Join Date: Jan 2016
Posts: 93
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Originally Posted by LibraIndigo
I was skeptical when I first heard of the term. I had to do some research to find the answers. As they say "seek and you shall find".
Edgar Cayce was married to a soulmate (we have many). His stenographer was his twin flame. They both had karma to work out, so it was not meant for them to be together in that life. His own readings came out and explained that if cayce hadn't met his soulmate (Gladys) they both would have died earlier in life.
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I always believed that we had more than one soul mate
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How I know my twin is my twin? Mirroring..same childhood traumas and upbringing, though at different places and of a different socio-economic backgrounds. We both started our early education in private schools, mine was free due to something my mother conjured up, my twin's family had a bit more money, at the same age we were both thrust into the public school system in bad neighborhoods unbeknownst to us. My family, because of financial reasons, his because of other reasons, but we are 20 years apart. We both also had our biggest emotional trauma at exactly the same age, accept mine was 20 years later. We have a birth defect on the same spinal vertebrae that we were born with. We like the same things, have similar personalities, tastes and thought processes. Where we do defer we mirror, traits I wish I had he has, traits he would have liked to have I have. We can read each other's thoughts and emotions. When we met and had a physical relationship, we both had dreams and visions. My abilities had been dormant for some time. I guess this is kunadini rising when things wake back up. A voice told me as I was waking up one morning "you were together before". I didn't understand why the strange wording, why not say "he's from a past life". Now I understand...why it was said in exactly that way "together" as in we were one.
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So this explains the dreams that I have had in a distant past that he was coming to me telling me things about his waking life. We was able to pick up one another's thoughts pretty often when we were friends. He would tell me to wear a color and would have on the same color that day. I think we both thought it was pretty amazing and everyone around us thought that one or the other was doing it to get attention.
This happened many times until I started to think he was doing it to get attention. One morning I heard his voice say wear read and white today.
Pretty odd being that the color was always red however, I did and went around the corner where he lived and he had on blue HUH?? HOW but it did not bother me until he walked towards me half way and grabbed his hat which was read and white. I promise I think he was well aware what was going on because after that he made a U turn and walked back to his steps.
I asked him one day "If you can hear me come out side" He came out as I walked more down the street to get to his place. I did not trust it maybe it was all a coincidence so a few days later I did it again and yep he came outside again. I still was in disbelief so again, but only because 3's a charm I asked him to come outside if he can hear me and he did but this time it was much different. He walked half way to me like he did when it came to the red and white, he looked at me with a frown like "DO YOU NOT UNDERSTAND I CAN HEAR YOU" and then he turned around and went back in his house. We don't have the same lives or have been through the same things that I'm aware of. We had such a beautiful bond back then and then everyone and everything came between us. Now we don't speak in the mind or in person lol however I am still stalked by him spiritually.
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Before we met I had a mental obsession with his industry that he worked in and he had a mental obsession with mine. To me it had nothing to do with love, just an industry I would have liked to be in and a fascination that I could not understand, especially having to do with the safety aspect of it. it turned out.. he was working on getting a degree in the exactly safety aspect of his industry. He was also looking at my industry and wanted to be in it and had already started the process for a possible change. We both travelled around the country a lot and had been crossing paths consistently unbeknownst to us since the times we were both ending our karmic relationships which was around the same time. When we met we both marveled on how we had both met the perfect person that we didn't think existed, that would have been brought about only if our own mind had conjured it up. We both had serious commitment issues and had no intention of being committed to anyone after our karmic relationships and were sure that it would not happen again.
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We were both in meaningless relationships when we met. I later found out that we have also crossed one another's path more than once and had the same friends from different places. I did not like that much because when we found out about our mutual friends we were not talking anymore. Every time someone would come to see him I knew them and they're like HIIII Precious which is my name.
I couldn't stand it but it did ring a few bells
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Where our relationship had come into fruition was in a place that neither one of us frequented very often but where my own parents had fallen in love and actually conceived me ( he did not know that when he invited me there for a vacation) and it is not a popular or well known place.
This geographic location was one I had always wanted to live in, as he did too. I even wrote a story about it when I was in grade school, "if I had the ability to fly and could go anywhere, I would fly to '_this geographic location __"
But most importantly I knew he was my twin looking back on it when I realized that we both brought to surface every deep seated and dormant trauma that we had both tried to cover up with layers of armor and ego protection.
So there. That is a twin flame relationship ,(for me anyway,). From my understanding that is the typical. My karmic relationship was with a soulmate. It was hard, but a very deep and instant connection but also a foreboding feeling from the beginning there was a lot of dysfunction on both sides but it was different than the TF connection. I had karma with that connection from something I did in a past life that I needed to sort out.
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I believe this to be my ex oh so much drama in that relationship however so much alike in many ways. So who are you suppose to be with?
Soul mate or twin flame?
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Now this new soulmate I met we have lifetimes together, many lifetimes...it's a better vibe, there is no karmic debt or anything, it's just an easy flowy warm type of feeling. There's even memories of the lives for both of us.
So like I said soulmates are easier but we do have free will, but is using your free will to go against a plan for twin reunion mocking the divine plan? This is something I ponder.
I think I read somewhere that the purpose of relationships is to either generate more love, work out karma or to learn something.
I don't know what the purpose of a twin flame relationship is when I know that both twins can incarnate at the same time but are still not meant to be together.
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I often wonder if this is just some strange battle from a past life myself however what about the love that we shared in the past that somehow faded away? This love was more spiritual than anything. I would get in my car and the same love song would come on and there is car was pulling in no matter where I was on earth lol. I just don't get it though. Is it something that has passed now and I'm just still stuck on the energy and emotions from the past or a past life? I hope one day I'll find the answers
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