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03-09-2017, 11:14 PM
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Lol LibraIndigo. As i read that I pictured people holding their hand to their chest with a gasp'Oh no where is she gonna go with this'
Thank you. I've been there as part of the experience and learn that it involves work to be done around the solar plexus chakra. Trying to not give away my power by handing it over to another to be the source of my joy, desires and needs. still shining without arrogance, but more contentment that my love is stronger than my desire to hold power over another or have another hold power of me for when I can be joyful or not. I mean there is so much more we learn along this. These people we love, will always show us what our problem is by how we have a problem with them lol they aint responsible to 'fix' us. They just show us. 'look at your tantrum' ...ok thanks, now i'll go figure how to not be so triggered, and why I was, where did it originate from etc. Become the investigator lol
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04-09-2017, 01:57 AM
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[quote=LibraIndigo]This is so funny!! The same thing happened to me, I was furious and also at my guides and other stuff they would do.
I would say "What?! What do you guys want from me??!! It's done, leave me alone!!". I am not going to go into detail about what was happening, and no one I knew even my one spiritual friend was empathetic. She said it was "just me" I couldnt help but thinking what a w *itch. Anyway I had to look for answers elsewhere till I figured out what was going on and what the connection was called and the purpose of it.
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I thought it was me for a while as well. These dreams came long ago and I even confronted him in regards to the dreams in the distant past. As I told him some of the things he expressed to me in the dreams he gave me a look like "you're sitting here telling me something I already know" Strange look until I got to another dream that I assume he had nothing to do with. His eyes grew in shock that I could know such a thing.
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Then I figured it out and started doing the work, now my dreams show me more things I have to work on within me, but not being haunted by the other anymore. I am pretty much content now. I believe the connection is real but am comforted in knowing that it is not needed to come into fruition for happiness, but it showed me some things I needed to see.
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I honestly don't think I need to see anything in regards to him if it has no meaning lol
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I do get annoyed with those who pine over finding or being with their twin flame. I do believe it would be something very difficult to maintain in this realm, unless both were close to completion and living away from society and it's hindrances.
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I don't get annoyed with them I just ask the question "are you sure that's what you want? It ain't all peachy"
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04-09-2017, 02:25 AM
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Originally Posted by Inika
Hope you don't mind. I'm going to use this post since it's fresh too, as a classic 'case and point' of the twin flame drama that seems constant. Yes, I know, i know, we're all at different stages and places and areas of this journey. But this....this is what is always gone on about here and why it attracts the Lorelyn's and the Bailies (sorry guy's, nothing on ether of you personally, you're both cool peeps in my book) that get wind of this being your ever love sick person that moans because it's just not going their way and how they want it and if it's a twin flame then I expect it to be happening in real life like this and if it's not then go away! (insert picture of a child having a tantrum here)
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OKAY OKAY I must admit I really did throw a real life tantrum. I even cried like a little baby begging for it to just go away and just leave me alone. I could've even called mommy to tell her to go find him and beat him up. but but but but how annoying do you think this thing could get? This has been going on for years for goodness sakes. I sure pray that he's going through this as well otherwise IT'S NOT FAIR LOL
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You know why you 'CANT' get this person out of your personal orbit space?
BECAUSE YOU LOVE THEM!
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Love don't pay the bills and it sure don't change the fact that I don't want him to come to me with this illusion that he love me as well. I won't lie though, there is a major love here but not so much that I can't shake the feeling in waking life. I think the child we share is what caused this love to grow so strong
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Why do you struggle with frustration?
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Because I can think positive thoughts all day long about him and nothing happens when I go to sleep. let me feel the need to put it in the past and do away with the emotions there he is saying "no remember you love me and I'm here" I'm like DUDE you're not here so just leave me alone. He has no problem leaving me alone in real life lol
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BECAUSE YOU'RE TRYING TO DENY YOUR LOVE BECAUSE IT SHOULD GO THE WAY YOU THINK IT SHOULD GO.
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possibly however, I feel that it's the way everyone should think it should go when we have a baby.
I'm not the one to force love or relationship on anyone. I feel that it should go the way it's suppose to go and if it's not suppose to go then I feel it should just leave me alone lol
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most situations like this, when it's not working how we'd like it to. We just, walk off. No sweat. But this situation has a foundation of unconditional love and no matter how frustrating you, they or the situation is. Your love is way more stronger than your ego's wants and expectations. You'll fight and struggle against yourself. When you surrender to accepting - whew, ok, I love no matter what is going on. Then just allow. Turn and look at your life, what do you like to do? Music? Shop? Hobbies? Friends? Carry on and know you love, deeply, unconditionally no matter what you can and cant control. You still love when all has been said and done.
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I can agree to this because it is only when I deny the emotions and stop feeling the love when I'm awake that this happens to me. I don't want to though and that may sound like the kid again but I'm sorry I just don't. I just want him to fade right away like as if nothing has ever happened however it's much easier said than done
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That energy you want removed? Is your energy. It's tired, drained from fighting against the self. You want it gone. It will release it's strong hold when you stop resisting and allow everything to be as it is without tantrums of how it's not going the way you want it. 'get out of my dreams, and into my life' or go the heck away and leave me alone!
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lol yeah that part lol lol
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Oh the demands! Focus on what brings joy :) shift the vbration of frustration to joy! it may help.
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I will try as hard as I can to do that. I will try to invite the energy and allow it to flow as it will. I think this was very good advice and I love advice that don't sugarcoat. I possibly would not be screaming now or leave me alone if there was not a child involved however I do understand and will for sure try the best I can to take the advice you have given to me and use it
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04-09-2017, 02:47 AM
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It would almost be simpler if it didn't exist. Like if you met your twin flame, it fell apart but then you met a soulmate that you know you have a lot of past lives with and life would he simple, easy and joyous with, but at the same time you feel the pull of your twin. What do you do? Do you run off with your soulmate? Or wait to see what is meant to be with your twin? Because twin means ascension and healing...soulmates are easier and nicer but is it the same progress? Is that going against a divine plan when the universe worked so hard to bring you together with your twin and then you give up and run into the hills with a soulmate? Considering the effort it takes to incarnate at the same time and having a chance of crossing paths it just seems it would be disrespectful to run off with a soulmate. Yea I was happier and life was simpler when I didnt know about it. Is this is a gift...or is it a curse?
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04-09-2017, 03:07 AM
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I remember being a kid and imagining how awesome my boobs would be when I finally got them. I didn't realize how painful and embarrassing puberty reality would be. Then I imagined having a baby,how awesome that would be. Then I went into labor and delivery. Worst pain ever! Both experiences were painful but grew me and taught me and still do. I can imagine the brains out of anything, but until we experience it, along with its pains and joys. Then what do we get? A life of ease by only imagining it, a life of ease by no obstacles so we stay at the same level and stunt our growth by never accepting a bit of pain to come with the experience.
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04-09-2017, 04:17 AM
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Originally Posted by LibraIndigo
It would almost be simpler if it didn't exist. Like if you met your twin flame, it fell apart but then you met a soulmate that you know you have a lot of past lives with and life would he simple, easy and joyous with, but at the same time you feel the pull of your twin. What do you do? Do you run off with your soulmate? Or wait to see what is meant to be with your twin? Because twin means ascension and healing...soulmates are easier and nicer but is it the same progress? Is that going against a devine plan when the universe worked so hard to bring you together with your twin and then you give up and run into the hills with a soulmate? Considering the effort it takes to incarnate at the same time and having a chance of crossing paths it just seems...yea I was happier and life was simpler when I didnt know about it. Is this is a gift...or is it a curse?
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Seems like a curse to me. Now I'm confused as to if this person is my twin flame or soulmate. I guess I thought it was the same thing.
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04-09-2017, 04:21 AM
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04-09-2017, 04:25 AM
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04-09-2017, 05:51 AM
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Originally Posted by Inika
I remember being a kid and imagining how awesome my boobs would be when I finally got them. I didn't realize how painful and embarrassing puberty reality would be. Then I imagined having a baby,how awesome that would be. Then I went into labor and delivery. Worst pain ever! Both experiences were painful but grew me and taught me and still do. I can imagine the brains out of anything, but until we experience it, along with its pains and joys. Then what do we get? A life of ease by only imagining it, a life of ease by no obstacles so we stay at the same level and stunt our growth by never accepting a bit of pain to come with the experience.
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no pain no gain...
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04-09-2017, 12:38 PM
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Originally Posted by Inika
You know why you 'CANT' get this person out of your personal orbit space?
BECAUSE YOU LOVE THEM!
Why do you struggle with frustration?
BECAUSE YOU'RE TRYING TO DENY YOUR LOVE BECAUSE IT SHOULD GO THE WAY YOU THINK IT SHOULD GO.
I see this a lot when a label gets attached to the person and the expectation that goes along with the label.
What if you attach the wrong label and expect the wrong things as a result?
when you could just accept the love without labels, leave it at that and hope that other does as well
most situations like this, when it's not working how we'd like it to. We just, walk off. No sweat. But this situation has a foundation of unconditional love and no matter how frustrating you, they or the situation is. Your love is way more stronger than your ego's wants and expectations. You'll fight and struggle against yourself. When you surrender to accepting - whew, ok, I love no matter what is going on. Then just allow. Turn and look at your life, what do you like to do? Music? Shop? Hobbies? Friends? Carry on and know you love, deeply, unconditionally no matter what you can and cant control. You still love when all has been said and done.
That energy you want removed? Is your energy. It's tired, drained from fighting against the self. You want it gone. It will release it's strong hold when you stop resisting and allow everything to be as it is without tantrums of how it's not going the way you want it. 'get out of my dreams, and into my life' or go the heck away and leave me alone! Oh the demands! Focus on what brings joy :) shift the vbration of frustration to joy! it may help.
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Genius!
What you resist persist's
or check quote in sig!
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