Soulmates

[GalTrav]

I find that the universe is humourous when bringing to me the things I "listed" down like everytime I do my soulmate list. The most recent one involved me writing down, that of course this person should marry me. So this is how it happened. I found a new job in a foreign country. This person embodied every single thing on my list, plus the bad and the ugly of course haha. To make things worse, this person sits beside me at work and there's nothing I can do because this person happens to be my new boss and quite honestly, I don't like what I get to see every single day despite what I wrote down on my list. My co-worker and I were once talking about our boss and at that time I was complaining. She proceeded and mentioned that I should be grateful that atleast my boss gave me a full time permanent contract and it's like she "married" me. True enough, I sit beside her every single day for 8 hours and over time some times like a marriage and we work together as a team. In my head I wanted a "partner" like a romantic one but I got one alright, a partner to work in a job side by side as a team. It's one hell of a rollercoaster ride. Obviously the list is incorrect. I actually labeled it as "My Life Partner" instead of "My Soulmate". What is the right term to use when asking for your "Marriage Partner"?