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Old 14-03-2020, 09:41 AM
JKMcKay JKMcKay is offline
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Awakening in Love

There is someone I've known for a very long time, but we have never been officially together. There is a history between us of missed chances, external complications, misunderstandings, and a general feeling of missing out on love when something really special could have been built.

I am for the most part at peace with how things are (us communicating minimally, and living 8 hours apart). It is just that we have spent a long time apart, and while there is this gravity and pull between our souls it seems for whatever reason my mind is not focused on the situation constantly during my waking hours. Though, occasionally my mind will be drawn to think about the situation in passing.

However, I'd say at least 75% of the mornings I wake up from a deep sleep I find myself deeply in love with this person immediately upon waking. It is a feeling of deep love, and also deep lust. I don't even usually have time to think what time it is or wonder about my dreams necessarily.

I am curious what process is going on when I sleep that my mind immediately upon awakening finds itself desperately enraptured with this woman?
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Old 14-04-2020, 08:54 AM
Mazead Mazead is offline
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Awakening is a way healing every thing and it is applicable for mind and relationship. We can make strong relationship with love and trust.
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Old 14-04-2020, 08:38 PM
iamthat iamthat is offline
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Does the other person feel the same way? Are you both free and single? If your living circumstances were different, would you be a couple?

In which case why not discuss the situation with her and see if there is any way you can change your circumstances so you are not living so far apart.

If there really could be something special between you then it seems a pity to not take some action to make it happen. What is the alternative? You both end up with other people, and you will always compare the person you are with to the person you could have been with.

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Old 02-05-2020, 08:27 AM
Rachella Rachella is offline
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This is something I have been experiencing too and it's been almost 10 years. I have also gone through all the cycle of sorrow, disbelief and disappointment that eventually (barely one year ago!) became acceptance. Today I am aware that this person has chosen not to include me in their life, I can see their reasons and also feel happy for them (not being hypocritical here, I am happy that he's happy, if I knew they were miserable I would be heartbroken.) So, what is that feeling upon awakening that you describe so well? No idea my friend! It's very pleasant but a little unsettling at the same time. I have tried looking for answers from various sources, but all I got was essentially "you need to move on." Well, yes of course, I haven't seen this person for years and I don't live in a monastery or locked inside a tower, moving on is the very least
What I do when it happens, is trying to embrace the feeling and letting it flow during the day. It works and I feel happier without being too stuck on the memories of him. This is how I deal with it, but why I have to deal with it is a mistery. Best of luck!
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Old 02-05-2020, 09:23 AM
John32241 John32241 is offline
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My understaning is that these experiences happen when there is a deep soul level love bond. However both need to be conscious of this bond for good things to happen.

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Old 06-05-2020, 09:28 PM
Dather12 Dather12 is offline
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You should work on yourself - your mind drifts towards towards her because you have yet to see her within you.

If you've been with her in person, there likely exist pieces of her essence inside of your aura. Those bits are able to communicate with you; it usually takes listening instead of lusting.
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Old 07-05-2020, 12:52 AM
Uriwhetu Uriwhetu is offline
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Mmm...I agree with John32241. I feel like you have a soul connection that you have experienced in a previous incarnation (or more) and that even though you are not together in this reality, you regularly meet in the Astral realm, which is why she is the first thing you think of when you awaken...its really romantic actually.
Is there any chance of you getting together in this reality? If not, you clearly have a powerful soul level connection.
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Old Yesterday, 07:04 AM
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In my views love depends on the understanding each other and capability of manage.
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