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Originally Posted by wstein
There is an excellent book that covers this topic:
"The Five Love Languages: The Secret to Love that Lasts" by Gary D Chapman
Basically its more about personal style as to how one looks to know they are loved and how they express love. Once you identify his style of looking for signs of love, you need to find something appropriate to his specific interests.
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Hi all!
I agree with wstein, this is an excellent guide. Here is the website, and you can take a test to find out your own personal language of love, or try to figure out the other persons.
http://www.5lovelanguages.com/
There are some other great tools as well if you explore the website. So important in a relationship. I know that I prefer touch and quality time. Nothing says I love you more than a nice big hug and kiss, holding hands, sharing interests together, and spending time together.
But everyone is different. Maybe if it the first time expressing how you feel then simply tell the person? Best wishes <3