Hello all
I'm not sure where to put this and I thought it might go in here so here goes:
Ok I just came back from spending the weekend with my sister and although we get on great there are some aspects of her that worry me.
For over three years she has been quite negative and pessimistic towards herself. She is rather angry, bitter and cynical at life, she has no faith in anything and is really rather eaten-up by this negativity.
She is seeing a Counsellor about her condition and although she says that the Counsellor has been helpful my sister is still rather negative, bitter and cynical.
She always says "nothing works" "this will never happen" "I won't ever get what I want" and things like this.
I have tried to tell her of positive thinking, the secret, forgiveness, acceptance but she just snaps and says the doesn't believe in any of it and always goes onto say "it doesn't work for me nothing ever does"
I have tried what I can but still nothing and I can sense that she is very angry with life-but luckily she told me that she doesn't believe in suicide and had not thought about it-I think she's telling the truth here as I'm also an empath and never got any feeling of this from her.
Life has not been easy for her but it most certainly hasn't been as awful as she is making it out to be...I think she is afraid but am not sure of what exactly...
She is not into spirituality and is in deep denial about many aspects of her life...
I asked her about forgiveness but sadly she says that she will not forgive anyone from the past...
She does not have self-confidence and she does not have a partner but she is a beautiful and lovely girl-she thinks that no guys like her.
I cleansed her room as she moved houses last week and she admitted that she had a wonderful and really deep sleep-something she hasn't had in a long time, she also seemed a lot more cheerful.
It seems that she's looking for answers but told me that she's given up on hope!
I basically have asked the Arch Angels and Angels to help her and I wonder if this is the right thing to do?
I want to send her more healing and help from the Angels and AA's but wonder how to go about doing so.
But she had come this far and she has a Councellor to talk to so she is getting some help-but I want to help turn her around to light and positivity...
I know that you cannot help someone unless they want to help themselves but she is my sister and I do love her and I just cannot sit around and just pretend that it will all sort itself out.
Is there any advice here? Do I send her distant healing and if so how should I do it?
Please advise me here!
Thank you very much!
Lots of love,
S xxxx