What does "no words" mean in regards to TFs?

[M.Tesla]

I am just wondering because the saying confuses me.

Even my own soul connection relationship has said this to me. "There are no words...

I hope it doesnt mean something about no communication? Just no words to describe a feeling?

That's what I think it means but idk. What about you guys?

[Seenthelight]

Originally Posted by M.Tesla

I am just wondering because the saying confuses me.

Even my own soul connection relationship has said this to me. "There are no words...

I hope it doesnt mean something about no communication? Just no words to describe a feeling?

That's what I think it means but idk. What about you guys?

Simply that: there are no words to actually describe this feeling. I have just said as much to someone else. I have been trying for 10.5 years to define it, to describe it. Nope. This puts me off sharing it with him, and was why I never disclosed it all to my husband when it all started - how can I explain something I simply have no words for.

But 'it is what it is...'

[M.Tesla]

When didnthe feeling start like when you couldnt explain it? Could you ever explain it?

[Seenthelight]

Originally Posted by M.Tesla

When didnthe feeling start like when you couldnt explain it? Could you ever explain it?

No.

It started in May 2008, we had been working together 4 months. He went on holiday, I went crazy (energy wise) but didn't realise why until he returned and the minute I saw him again my energy returned to normal and I realised what had happened. I felt a lot of it coming from him, as if he was showing clear signs of interest towards me but I was happily married and not interested. But the connection grew, it got under my skin, in my veins - although one could argue it was already within my soul. It just cemented into me, became part of me and who I am I guess. I'm not doing a great job of explaining because - hey, no words right! I could sit and write all the different things I experienced and felt but nothing could describe what this actually IS. It just is.

Simple really. There's no experiential vocabulary so it's impossible to describe the qualities of our experiences except in the grossest terms. Example: if I tell you I have a toothache there's no way I can describe it so you'll know exactly what my toothache is like. "It hurts" is about it. If you've never had a toothache my statement would be meaningless.

We interpret colours as experiences. Try describing what "red" is without pointing to something or describing an object that's red.

As Tfs seem a deeply spiritual experience then words won't be any use frying to convey it to another.

[M.Tesla]

Originally Posted by Lorelyen

Simple really. There's no experiential vocabulary so it's impossible to describe the qualities of our experiences except in the grossest terms. Example: if I tell you I have a toothache there's no way I can describe it so you'll know exactly what my toothache is like. "It hurts" is about it. If you've never had a toothache my statement would be meaningless.

We interpret colours as experiences. Try describing what "red" is without pointing to something or describing an object that's red.

As Tfs seem a deeply spiritual experience then words won't be any use frying to convey it to another.

thank you lorelyen for putting this into words. You just explained the experience in a nutshell. Outsiders perseoctive though. Thanks.

^^^ and sorry about the typo. One should never fry when conveying ideas. So much for spell checkers! Just didn't notice it.

I suppose my background in semiotics led me to this topic as it involves signs, language and communication. An interesting one because words are at best symbols for ideas.

[happyhaunts03]

There are no words to explain the whole experience in a way that would make sense to anyone who is not familiar with experiencing a TF. I lacked words from the start of my journey. It's easier to describe it now, but still cannot fully express the joy, completion, pain, and undeniable love that come with the connection.

[gypsymystique]

My words have literally left me upon meeting him. We spoke but it was really strange. There was more telepathy and body language.

[Ziusudra]

Originally Posted by M.Tesla

I am just wondering because the saying confuses me.

Even my own soul connection relationship has said this to me. "There are no words...

I hope it doesnt mean something about no communication? Just no words to describe a feeling?

That's what I think it means but idk. What about you guys?

You are seeking what your soul connection is saying (not what we think).
Why not just ask her?

Like this,
"What do you mean when you said , there is no words..? I did not understand it. Please clarify it for me. "