Question for 9s

[gypsymystique]

I've been talking to a friend, who keeps reminding me that I'm a 9 and that certain things that happen in my life seem to happen with most 9s she knows. So, I want to ask about some things that have come up.

Do you find that your families have lots of dramas, and do you live far away from them due to this or some other reason?

Do people always call you when they need something but seldom when things are going well?

Do you find that manifesting comes easily to you?

Do people randomly tend to come to you to offer opportunities or help when you seem to need it?

Originally Posted by gypsymystique

I've been talking to a friend, who keeps reminding me that I'm a 9 and that certain things that happen in my life seem to happen with most 9s she knows. So, I want to ask about some things that have come up.

Do you find that your families have lots of dramas, and do you live far away from them due to this or some other reason?

Do people always call you when they need something but seldom when things are going well?

Do you find that manifesting comes easily to you?

Do people randomly tend to come to you to offer opportunities or help when you seem to need it?

Sounds normal to me.
Nines are the number of the humanitarian. They want to take care of everyone, family or not. They tend to have a lot of family drama. They are family-oriented and want to make sure everyone is taken care of. Family does mean a lot to them. They can be easily scarred early in life by traumatic events such as death, divorce, major transitions. They can feel abandoned. That's a big lesson of the 9. They need to learn to embrace endings, because 9 is the number of endings. Understand and recognize when cycles have run their course, and it's time for things to change. That's the way of life. If you "let go and let God" as a nine.... you'll embrace change and endings so much better. With an ending comes a new beginning. "Turn Turn Turn" should be your theme song.

People look to 9 because people sense your wisdom. You also give off an air of having it all "covered." So people tend to assume if you're standing in the middle of a store, that you work there. haha! They assume you're a leader or an authority figure. You have a sense of a authority, wisdom, and nurturing all rolled in one. You're the humanitarian of numerology! The bad part of this, however, is that they tend not to recognize when you're in trouble, because it just never occurs to them that you have any troubles. It's up to you to reach out, I'm afraid. If you need a shoulder or a talk, let people know. Let people know when you need help.

Nine is a very lucky number. Finances, opportunities, resources are readily available to you. Obviously, if you're a humanitarian, you also have a vision. You can see far down the road to a better life for people. People want to be apart of that vision and process. If you live selflessly without expectation, this is a number that reaps great rewards.

[renewe]

Originally Posted by gypsymystique

Do you find that your families have lots of dramas, and do you live far away from them due to this or some other reason?

Do people always call you when they need something but seldom when things are going well?

Do you find that manifesting comes easily to you?

Do people randomly tend to come to you to offer opportunities or help when you seem to need it?

Yes, yes, yes, and yes. I am SO happy about your questions - it's made me realize that it's okay that people only call me when they need something. And that I don't necessarily have to feel guilty when things go the way I want them to!

Originally Posted by gypsymystique

I've been talking to a friend, who keeps reminding me that I'm a 9 and that certain things that happen in my life seem to happen with most 9s she knows. So, I want to ask about some things that have come up.

Do you find that your families have lots of dramas, and do you live far away from them due to this or some other reason?

Do people always call you when they need something but seldom when things are going well?

Do you find that manifesting comes easily to you?

Do people randomly tend to come to you to offer opportunities or help when you seem to need it?

Yes, I actually lived on the other side of the world for 5 years.

Yes, and I need to learn not to be so mad at them when they do.

Come to think of it, yes. I barely do this, I need to do it more often.

And YES! It's always when I least expect it. But it's what I need at that exact moment.

90% yes :)

[gypsymystique]

Originally Posted by renewe

Yes, yes, yes, and yes. I am SO happy about your questions - it's made me realize that it's okay that people only call me when they need something. And that I don't necessarily have to feel guilty when things go the way I want them to!

I'm glad to see it gave someone some perspective. Oh, and yes, I feel that guilt about things coming so easily to me also.

My friend reminded me that no one sees the lifetimes and lifetimes where I gave a whole life to earn the opportunities in this one. She pointed out a life I had where I sat in a dark room with one small candle for light and wrote (transcribed a book) for days and days until my fingers would not straighten.

We earned this lifetime.