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Thursday, 03:49 PM
iamthat
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Join Date: Feb 2017
Location: Golden Bay, New Zealand
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Originally Posted by girlsearching
It's my Subconscious mind that is making me feel inadequate.
In which case delve into the root causes of these feelings of inadequacy to bring them into conscious awareness. Then you can start to release them. For most people these root causes have their origin in childhood experiences and how we were treated by our parents. Bringing these subconscious feelings to the surface may require professional help, for example hypnotherapy. Just be aware that some therapists are better than others, so find one whom you are happy with.
Regarding the original post, there is truth in this. At the same time, it is difficult to sustain a cheerful confident outlook if our subconscious is sending us messages that we are inadequate and unworthy and we do not deserve happiness. For me, this has always been the issue with using affirmations. Many of us may affirm one thing while our subconscious is telling us the opposite. At some point we need to deal with any self-sabotaging subconscious tendencies.
Peace
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This has been a ongoing inner conflict within myself. I'm dependant on my Mom Cause I still live with her my dad even for the most part has always been absent epsically during my formative years. I'd l have been playing out how I want to tell him and his wife(my-so called step mom) how I felt for years . I just don't have the courage it's not he lives in another town or in a different state either. I'm just afraid of the outcome cause he wouldn't care or would never have anything to do with me again. I have been contemplating in my head of the scenarios of how it would go down . I'd love to be more confident in myself and dress up and know that I am just as Beautiful as the next woman too epsically in my hometown. I don't know what is it but I truly feel that others pay attention to me and since I walk and take the city bus I just feel like the people in my neighborhood or around me tend to pick up on my energy . Funny My mom gets on me about dressing down cause she says people still look at me regardless. I normally wear hooded sweatshirts and if my hair is not done I'll wear my hat. I part of me wants to dress up and look cute but another part of me dose not want to. I don't know how to drive or have my liscience so I can't stunt on anyone with a car anyway.
I hope I'm not getting too personal with you all .
