Psychic and telepathic attack is awful. However, I think the answer lies in responsibility. I myself find it easy to fall in to "pouting" for lack of better word. For wishing for justice, for the person to stop, etc. In my case it has been "my" dad. Perpetually. Lots of telepathic attack. Constantly. Defying reason. Just insane rage and malevolence. And constant messages of "it's all in your head!" "Don't forget your death instinct!" He loves to throw Freudian nonsense at me about "defense mechanisms" i.e. Freud's dogma on pathological and ridiculous notions of defense. To try to make me totallly lower legitamite defenses. And this coming partly because his dad, my grandfather, had him go to Freudian/ Jungian Psychianalysis as a kid for a few years, and so he in turn "through transferece" Attacks me. And throws lots of other nonsense. Essentially, beligerent, attacking, attacking, etc. And through books like "Ram Dass Be Here Now" tries to say imply "I am my own grandpa" and thus his dad, and thus vengeance, which is false!. It sucks. It sucks! I have much, much, much, much, much difficulty with it. And I have an irrational notion of divine retribution, vengeance, etc. In this life. I think that that malevolent spirit will go where they deserve in an afterlife. For me, calmness, and finding people who believe in/ experience telepathy is a good start. I've even found a counsellor who believes in telepathy, and who I have begun to so refreshingly speak with about such experiences. It is awesome to have someone listen, and I try not to get to stoked on her "credentials" because there's 999 to 1 bad and ignorant "counselors" out there. But there are people out there to talk to. But really, blaming I think traps you as helpless, not in control, and thus further open to attack. Responsibility for one's own life and mind, and getting help from others I believe to be the best answer. I'm still working on it. Hang in there!