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imagine if he were "a complete stranger"... maybe someone you passed
on the street, or someone standing in line near you at the grocery store.
if that complete stranger were to 'want something from you', would you
simply ignore them, or run away? [i doubt it.] the point of your dreams may
be that he's not being granted the 'common decency' that you would show
towards a random stranger... you still hold judgments against him.
your judgments hold no power over his life experience (in all likelihood),
but they do cause you a degree of distress, if only through dreams.
if you think of his dream character as representing something within yourself
which carries the burden of being unforgiven, you'll be on your way towards
self-forgiveness (for having allowed that relationship?), and that ought to
eliminate those dreams.
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