I know what you mean about getting lives confused. I am female now, my last life I was male. A few months ago, I had gotten really teed off at a woman on the phone (work related). My husband was sitting at the dining room table when I stormed out of my office. On my way to the deck to work with my flowers in order to calm down I said out loud "I'd like to tell her to (something I would need to be a male for it to happen). My husband calmly looked at me and said "Wrong life." !!!