[Dragonfly1]

Condolences on the recent passing of your Mum metal (((hugs)))....people who haven't lost someone close don't understand the pain of passing of someone dear...They want 'us' to get over it, because it isn't comfortable for them to be around a grieving person. It always gets harder after the initial first weeks because we are busy and caught up in the processes of the passing.....people are around a lot and we don't have a lot of time to think....as time goes on others go back to their routines and we start to feel the loss more keenly when we have time to think about it.....grieving is a personal process that can only take as long as it takes for you to start to recover, no one can put a time frame on such a personal thing.....it never really goes away, but mellows over time until we feel whole again......the ones we love who have passed will always be in our hearts.....