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Originally Posted by hellabomer
Thank you for your response. Your question made me think about what I am resisting. I think, many of us are afraid of change, the familiarity feel okay. And of course, when we lack confidence, we settle for things. We think, it's the best we can have, even if the other person has not treated us fairly. So, we resist losing it.
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Right, many of us
do fear change, even when our current situation isn't a particularly happy one - we might feel miserable, but at least we feel
secure in our misery. So many of us fear the worst, it doesn't seem to occur to us that things could actually change for the better.
Of course we're talking on the level of mind, but I was thinking more in terms of the level of felt experience - on the physical, energetic, emotional level. When you're feeling anxious, stressed, tense, etc., what is being resisted on the level of feeling?