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Originally Posted by Lorelyen
Many responses here from males seem rather glib to me. At least one really
isn't in contact with his emotions enough to know what it's like.
But it IS fair to say that females probably feel greater unease / danger when
they're being stalked, whether in their imagination or actual.
Presumably when a male is stalked (no doubt there are cases) is easier to
put a stop to it. Not so easy for females. Read the news reports:
You'll find many more cases of women murdered when stalking runs out of control
than men. I haven't actual statistics but my daily trawl through the news
suggests that's a fact.
So, men, you need to be stalked by someone more physically powerful than
yourself to appreciate what it's like.
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All of that is valid enough, but without further information we don't know if certain words are being used because of the OP's age or culture.
We have one side of a story.
We don't know how he has her number, or how often they interact.
I cannot believe the armchair psychology, criminology & presumption within the thread.
A person outwardly naming themselves
paranoid hippie is surely introducing that to the table.
Have you people never listened to lyrics of songs? Love conquers all, I would do anything for love, I can't help falling in love with you - all tonally might be said by a mental case but will have also been first dances to weddings.
Also when did we decide feed someone suffering from anxiety instead of offering more positive alternatives & takes on situations? Hippie makes no mention of telling this guy shes not interested & continues to jump forward.
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Originally Posted by Paranoidhippie
I don’t need his or other people’s concern. I just want some fun. I just doubt that’s what I’ll get.
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Note what is said here - it's tonally unafraid but annoyed that other people would show feeling towards a person not wanting it.
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