Um...well..

I have learnt and am learning to take responsibility for my actions and not pass the buck on to something. I've done and said rotten stuff too but it wasn't the only option i could have gone with. Loosing self control is never an attractive thing. To control the self and not get explosive is easier for some though but it's not to say it can't be achieved. If i have been angry it's generally because i have bottled up a hurt which then turned to a resentment then frustration and finally anger and instead of getting it out on the table and sorting it out i allowed it to erupt and yeah alcohol can easily bring that out. Now i'm not speaking for everyone here. This is my personal past experiences.