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Originally Posted by ocean breeze
Yes, you seem to grasp what i'm saying. Many times i don't feel any need to intervene and let people sort out their own problems. Depending on the situation of course. If they ask and i feel i can help, absolutely.
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what you've said here is not at all what you'd said earlier.
i don't sense myself having any "need to intervene", and i could allow you to
"sort out your own problems"... ESPECIALLY since i'm fairly certain that you'll
react defensively to any suggestions of assistance i might offer... yet i'm
willing to to make the effort in good faith.
you had said: "The more healthy and healed i feel, the less desire there is to
help others." is this different than saying that when you are in a healthy state
you have no inclination to help people? the healthy/whole you has no interest
in aiding those who may be in need? you've not said that you've become
unaware of hurting people, only that you sense no desire to be helpful.
i suggest that a disinterest in the suffering of others is not a healthy state
of mind, and what you've come to believe is "healthy", for yourself, is not
actually healthy for you. i suggest that "the desire to heal others" is not
something that you'll want to 'heal' yourself of.